How do I know if a guy wants to date me?

[zorotheunicorn]

Is wanting to taking things slow a sign like. He did just get out a relationship so Ik he’s a little hurt but I can’t tell how he feels about me but it seem too soon to ask.

[ohshee]

Depending on who broke up with you in his other relationship it might take a little bit of time he might just jump right on it but just be careful because when you guys break up with somebody are they get broken up with and they get a girlfriend it's usually a rebound girlfriend and you usually will get hurt so just pay attention be careful

[zorotheunicorn]

At 1st it seemed like he was all for something casual and into sexual stuff then he want to start taking things slower once I started to but when I wanted it to get going he still want to slow down. So it feels like I was gonna be a rebound but end up not being one. I’m not sure tho

[ohshee]

You know that's the reason why you said it if you pay attention we all know what's going to happen before it happens but you have to be willing to listen yeah if he wants to take it slow it's because whatever else might be happening in his life at least he doesn't want to hurt you that's the reason why he's saying that even though he's going to anyway just by doing what he's doing yeah I can feel what you're saying I'm an empath and I can feel your words and you know more than you think you know

[Michael49]

I would give him his space and make sure he has healed from break up. Its better for you as well

[zorotheunicorn]

And I assumed that’s why he wants to take his time

[Michael49]

And not feel pressured into jumping in too soon. Not that u would pressure him he may just feel that way

[zorotheunicorn]

Yea I understand if he doesn’t want to now. You can always change your mind at anytime and if I did I want someone to understand. It just that we’ve been talking for 2 week and if he wants to see me a couple then before anything that means we will have been talking for about a month so then that smack dab in the middle of cuffing season. Is he gonna like try and get with me then

[Michael49]

Lmao not 100% sure what cuffing season is and not sure i wanna know. 🤔 or do i? Just be open and honest and keep an open line going

[zorotheunicorn]

“During the Fall and Winter months people who would normally rather be single or promiscuous find themselves along with the rest of the world desiring to be "Cuffed" or tied down by a serious relationship. The cold weather and prolonged indoor activity causes singles to become lonely and desperate to be cuffed.”

[Michael49]

Ahh makes sense. My naughty mind went elsewhere sorry

[Michael49]

Thanks for the MHO

[PugLife1234]

Don't have advice really, but in a similar situation. I am just going to ask him.

[zorotheunicorn]

See I want to but I wanna give it a week or 2 to see if we are even talking after that long if we are then yea but if not eh

[PugLife1234]

Good idea. I have no idea what to ask though? Any ideas?

[zorotheunicorn]

I’m just going say “ hey I was wondering if you have any romantic feelings towards me?”

[magiusX26]

unless he is waiting for you to ask him out, he will ask you out.

[TallAnon]

If he talks to you voluntarily.

[zorotheunicorn]

Like he texts me first so I shouldn’t text him to see if he text 1st

[TallAnon]

I wouldn't change your behaviour