How to know if a guy genuinely likes me and wants a relationship?

How to know if a guy genuinely likes me and wants a relationship?
Signs?
Actions?
I've been seeing a guy recently so need to know..

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  • If he genuinely likes you and wants a relationship then having sex will be on the back burner. That said, you should be able to tell that he really does like being with you. He's interested in what you say and do and you're the same way with him. You both seem to smile a lot and you both seem so comfortable in each others' company. He respects you and your opinions and suggestions. He looks at you in a way that tells you he finds pleasure just looking at you. When you lock eyes it makes you both smile. He wants to pay for the things you do together - out to eat, the movies, stuff like that. He keeps in touch with you in a way that you like and is quick to complement you on little but important things. He's dependable. He's complemented you on how you look and likes the way you dress. He's made a complement on how you do your hair and loves your eyes. He keeps an eye on what you're doing. If the guy you've been seeing is like this in most things and you feel you're important to him, you can feel almost certain he's looking for a relationship. Also, when you find a guy like that, trust him and don't feel like you have to be texting each other constantly. Keep yourself just a "little" scarce. Good luck! :)

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  • He's always there for you. No matter what you do or say, he never gives up trying. You basically can't get rid of him, kind of clingy too.

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  • -Consistently progressing and moving forward. I. e taking you on dates, taking you to meet his friends, his parents.

    -Regularly asks you out during the day, wants to spend time with you a lot

    -Starts talking about the future and includes you in it.

    Those are some signs. Eventually he should ask you, however if he doesn't, you can ask him about what your status is - many girls do.

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  • Catch him with a friend and kinda pay attention to his friend get his friend to flirt back don't over do it. See How he responds don't over due it with his friend..
    Then if he says he's ready to go and looks a little hurt you can call him and perk him back up by telling him his friend was nice but you think his friend is a flirt. So you prefer to talk with him alone next time and see how he answers back. then go from there. Be wise think it through.

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  • I suppose its different for everyone, but if he's not the confident type who will be more active towards you like more messages or asking you directly he's probably nervous or careful.

    See if he starts asking you personal questions about relationships or such, as if he's testing the waters.
    Or if he's being really thoughtful about his actions around you, like if he starts saying something then immediately stumbles over his words

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  • Sack tap his balls with the back of your hand then see if he can walk with his shirt over his head for 10 steps while you run in front of his steps and bend over in front of him and tell us what you felt. No doctor but fell that there's a vain in men that runs from or penis to heart so try it and your welcone

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  • If he cares about you.. if he remember ur routine... ur liking and disliking... tolerate ur anger and want to be around u other than intimacy... share things with u... discuss with him about marriage his future.. if he is serious about u then u will be in his future.. small things small gestures let u know how serious he is about u

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  • That is really hard to say
    If he is not overly eager to get to having sex could be a sign that your company is more valuable
    If he isn't really flirtatious but has genuine conversation with you
    Other then that look into his eyes when he smiles at you... you can see a lot there though I cannot explain what to look for

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  • If he is the one that you don't want, he wants a relationship and genuinely likes you.

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  • You kind of just have to know/use your intuition. Sometimes they will just tell you straight up though

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  • Frequency of seeing him, making plans for future , spacial plans , things of that nature.

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  • Actions. Words can always be misleading so he can say things like "I like you, I don't know about this, I don't want a relationship" but just because he said those things does not mean thats what he wants. If his actions are contridicting what he is saying then you just need to sit him down and have a heart to heart. Peel into him beyond the basic level of emotional conversation. There are so much that us Guys hide from women which is why we often fail at keeping the good ones. But sometimes if people would understand that a heart to heart opens up more possibilities, I think we would all not have to be worried about why X doesn't want to be with them.

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  • Imagine what a white knight would do, then ask yourself if he's like that 😁
    in short: if sex is good if he show he cares for you , you talkin much etc. you can feel it in the gutts.

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  • He does things he normally wouldn't do. Hangs out with friends less. Opens doors. Plans all your dates. Actually listens to you and ask your opinion on subjects that are comp in his control.

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    • Exactly. Don't know why that got downvoted but I think if a guy act like that he wants a relationship

    • Yes he will he will do things only a husband would do for a wife. Things that take him out of his comfort zone. If a guy is holding a purse outside a dressing room with an uneasy look on his face thats a man in love and committed

  • Not jumping straight in to the sex bandwagon and tried to take it slow. (Just because he doesn't do this also does not necessarily mean that he doesn't genuinely like you)

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  • he would want to ne with you ALL THE TIME. He would be nuty and a bit crazy. Everthing you say would great

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  • He mostly acts strange around you he seems tense or nervous and when you are around we will most likely subconsciously stare or smile like a dumb ass

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  • Most guys don’t so be careful protect yourself, your heart till you really trust this person

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  • Just withdraw a little. See the response. If he likes you, he will chase you. You girls don't realise it but you have the power in a relationship.

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  • Action speak louder then work and make sure they are consistent!

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  • If he cares about you.. Phoned you everyday.. Wants to meet you and talk not just chatting

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  • Do a fake break up and see if he fights for you. Play the game.

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  • Just tell them how you feel that is what I did to a girl I like and she said yes been ng my girlfriend so I mean

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  • Instead of flirting n looking for sex they always treat u special with love n care more than u expect

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  • No action , no sign , he will walk up to u if he is a man without the fear of rejection.

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  • No sex until a month. If he's still around, he's relationship material

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  • Ask him if he genuinely likes you and if you are attracted to eachother them date

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  • Thats impossible !! It will take time to understand a peeson

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  • The attention you get. Try something, flirt and have fun...

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  • If he is frank in telling you all the things then you can say he likes you

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  • If he likes u genuinely he will give a best suggestions in every situation thats it,

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  • Every guys different make da move i guess worst he can say is no

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  • When he gives you those long looks, that's is a sign and an invitation.

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  • He can't stop thinking about you and wants all the time he can with you

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  • Frequent conversations about your long term goals

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  • Ask him.

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  • If you saw a boner

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  • Easiest way to find out is to ask him out

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  • He likes to spend more time with u ..

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  • He’ll chase you and respect you

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  • you can't know that

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  • No but I’ll love to lol

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  • Ask him

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  • He wants to see you most of the time...

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  • Signs

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