How to know if a guy genuinely likes me and wants a relationship?

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How to know if a guy genuinely likes me and wants a relationship?
Signs?
Actions?
I've been seeing a guy recently so need to know..

ilovelegs · Accepted Answer

If he genuinely likes you and wants a relationship then having sex will be on the back burner. That said, you should be able to tell that he really does like being with you. He's interested in what you say and do and you're the same way with him. You both seem to smile a lot and you both seem so comfortable in each others' company. He respects you and your opinions and suggestions. He looks at you in a way that tells you he finds pleasure just looking at you. When you lock eyes it makes you both smile. He wants to pay for the things you do together - out to eat, the movies, stuff like that. He keeps in touch with you in a way that you like and is quick to complement you on little but important things. He's dependable. He's complemented you on how you look and likes the way you dress. He's made a complement on how you do your hair and loves your eyes. He keeps an eye on what you're doing. If the guy you've been seeing is like this in most things and you feel you're important to him, you can feel almost certain he's looking for a relationship. Also, when you find a guy like that, trust him and don't feel like you have to be texting each other constantly. Keep yourself just a "little" scarce. Good luck! :)

velvet536 · Accepted Answer

Actions. Words can always be misleading so he can say things like "I like you, I don't know about this, I don't want a relationship" but just because he said those things does not mean thats what he wants. If his actions are contridicting what he is saying then you just need to sit him down and have a heart to heart. Peel into him beyond the basic level of emotional conversation. There are so much that us Guys hide from women which is why we often fail at keeping the good ones. But sometimes if people would understand that a heart to heart opens up more possibilities, I think we would all not have to be worried about why X doesn't want to be with them.

little_bird1 · Accepted Answer

He's always there for you. No matter what you do or say, he never gives up trying. You basically can't get rid of him, kind of clingy too.

lilaqua · Accepted Answer

You kind of just have to know/use your intuition. Sometimes they will just tell you straight up though

HitGirl_4680 · Accepted Answer

Most guys don’t so be careful protect yourself, your heart till you really trust this person

Kkaos · Answer

-Consistently progressing and moving forward. I. e taking you on dates, taking you to meet his friends, his parents.

-Regularly asks you out during the day, wants to spend time with you a lot

-Starts talking about the future and includes you in it.

Those are some signs. Eventually he should ask you, however if he doesn't, you can ask him about what your status is - many girls do.

zulfiqarali · Answer

If he cares about you.. if he remember ur routine... ur liking and disliking... tolerate ur anger and want to be around u other than intimacy... share things with u... discuss with him about marriage his future.. if he is serious about u then u will be in his future.. small things small gestures let u know how serious he is about u

handsomewilliam · Answer

Catch him with a friend and kinda pay attention to his friend get his friend to flirt back don't over do it. See How he responds don't over due it with his friend..
Then if he says he's ready to go and looks a little hurt you can call him and perk him back up by telling him his friend was nice but you think his friend is a flirt. So you prefer to talk with him alone next time and see how he answers back. then go from there. Be wise think it through.

Duntonnag · Answer

I suppose its different for everyone, but if he's not the confident type who will be more active towards you like more messages or asking you directly he's probably nervous or careful.

See if he starts asking you personal questions about relationships or such, as if he's testing the waters.
Or if he's being really thoughtful about his actions around you, like if he starts saying something then immediately stumbles over his words

Aynsof · Answer

That is really hard to say
If he is not overly eager to get to having sex could be a sign that your company is more valuable
If he isn't really flirtatious but has genuine conversation with you
Other then that look into his eyes when he smiles at you... you can see a lot there though I cannot explain what to look for

oteen · Answer

Sack tap his balls with the back of your hand then see if he can walk with his shirt over his head for 10 steps while you run in front of his steps and bend over in front of him and tell us what you felt. No doctor but fell that there's a vain in men that runs from or penis to heart so try it and your welcone

passinby · Answer

If he is the one that you don't want, he wants a relationship and genuinely likes you.

novaredphoenix · Answer

Frequency of seeing him, making plans for future , spacial plans , things of that nature.

Northern_star · Answer

Imagine what a white knight would do, then ask yourself if he's like that 😁 in short: if sex is good if he show he cares for you , you talkin much etc. you can feel it in the gutts.

Jbuff39 · Answer

He does things he normally wouldn't do. Hangs out with friends less. Opens doors. Plans all your dates. Actually listens to you and ask your opinion on subjects that are comp in his control.

Freaky512 · Answer

No action , no sign , he will walk up to u if he is a man without the fear of rejection.

CaptainADD · Answer

Action speak louder then work and make sure they are consistent!

Happinessowner2018 · Answer

If he cares about you.. Phoned you everyday.. Wants to meet you and talk not just chatting

Si1ky · Answer

Ask him if he genuinely likes you and if you are attracted to eachother them date

sidvt · Answer

Instead of flirting n looking for sex they always treat u special with love n care more than u expect

Styx2778 · Answer

Not jumping straight in to the sex bandwagon and tried to take it slow. (Just because he doesn't do this also does not necessarily mean that he doesn't genuinely like you)

TheOtherManOnTheSide · Answer

No sex until a month. If he's still around, he's relationship material

yapper · Answer

Just withdraw a little. See the response. If he likes you, he will chase you. You girls don't realise it but you have the power in a relationship.

MRDLEEE · Answer

The attention you get. Try something, flirt and have fun...

name_is_eric · Answer

When he gives you those long looks, that's is a sign and an invitation.

soccerstar252 · Answer

Just tell them how you feel that is what I did to a girl I like and she said yes been ng my girlfriend so I mean

mikec46224 · Answer

He can't stop thinking about you and wants all the time he can with you

khan170896 · Answer

Thats impossible !! It will take time to understand a peeson

jimmy2 · Answer

he would want to ne with you ALL THE TIME. He would be nuty and a bit crazy. Everthing you say would great

Edeard_David20 · Answer

He mostly acts strange around you he seems tense or nervous and when you are around we will most likely subconsciously stare or smile like a dumb ass

dev1290 · Answer

If he is frank in telling you all the things then you can say he likes you

surya44 · Answer

If he likes u genuinely he will give a best suggestions in every situation thats it,

The-joker · Answer

Every guys different make da move i guess worst he can say is no

crypto_D12 · Answer

Do a fake break up and see if he fights for you. Play the game.

shewannashootme · Answer

Frequent conversations about your long term goals

jimgon71 · Answer

Easiest way to find out is to ask him out

Sdk1999 · Answer

He likes to spend more time with u ..

JhoniBoy · Answer

He’ll chase you and respect you

anonimoussss · Answer

No but I’ll love to lol

Alvin777 · Answer

He wants to see you most of the time...

Jisoo_lover5683 · Answer

Ask him.

Light_beam · Answer

If you saw a boner

TheUglyMan · Answer

Ask him

shaki18 · Answer

you can't know that

Abdulk · Answer

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