How can I tell if a guy genuinely likes me and not just wants sex?

[Anonymous]

I don't want to make this too long

I'm starting dating again, I'm interested in someone

I'm not into casual sex, at all. Also, I would never have sex in the first dates or anything. Also, I don't date two at the same time

I have no problem writing to the guy or anything that involves initiative, but how I do know he's taking me seriously and not just expecting for sex eventually? I'm assuming a guy like that wouldn't go on 6 dates with me or something, obviously, but any tips to know before that?

But honestly, how do I know if a guy actually likes me? Not just in an attraction/sexual way?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Hmmm... Someone wanting only sex could be:

• Someone faking interest. So, intuition helps.
• Someone faking interest. So, experience helps.
• Someone faking interest. So, psychology helps.
• Someone faking interest. So, running tests helps.

Plus, someone wanting only sex could be you, unconsciously.

So, self-awareness helps too.

[Asker]

This makes no sense how is "have intution, have experience, etc" a tip. And why would you imply I just want sex "unconsciously", it's impossible, I would never want to have sex with someone I don't see myself in a relationship with

[Asker]

I honestly don't understand why you were so passive aggressive, lmao

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't think I gave tips indeed, except the running tests part maybe, but that's because I don't believe in tips. I believe in what happened when I was getting to know someone, I believe the factors were intuition, experience, psychology and running tests.

The part about unconsciously/subconsciously is just a foot note, also from experience, it isn't meant to target you specifically, it targets anyone reading this line.

[Alex-Snow]

If he likes you and does not want to rush into sex it is about giving you the time you need before sex and more importantly the respect you deserve. How long have you been going out with each other?

[William7489]

The funniest way that we men could tell if a guy was really into a girl was he would not say anything about her after he had been on dates with her. Naturally other guys would try to ask what kind of things happen or what they did, and the person would just say something like oh yeah, she’s really cool. We just had fun. And I found myself doing it. And what it means is, we think we have found a keeper and we’re not going to talk bad about her in front of other people. I guess if you could talk to some of his friends?

[Mike_Hum]

Sex is part of a relationship. To deny such is to be a fool.

[Asker]

Where did I said sex shouldn't be part of a relationship? I just want someone who wants *more* than *just&* sex...

[Mike_Hum]

so then the guys will weed themselves out.

[slatyb]

Don't have sex with him for a while.

[jahaims]

Don't fuck him until you know obviously

[In_Trance]

Ask him