How do I know if a man really likes me or just wants sex?

[Anonymous]

I’ve never been able to tell the difference. I have Asperger’s Syndrome. I’ve been used a lot from not knowing the difference.

[DermalPunch]

When men are genuine their words and actions match up. If they don't something is off. Sometimes it's a good thing but 99% of the time it's bad.

[Guy13]

It takes time for this to reveal itself. 4-6 months before the first action would be a good sign of sincerity on his part

[Asker]

What first action? Do you mean making the move to kiss or be lovers? I didn’t know people other than religious people waited that long. My friend *Tina* and her husband didn’t kiss or become lovers until their wedding day. I thought that was strange.

[Guy13]

first sex... sorry for vagueness.

[Asker]

Oh that’s ok. So that’s why you’re so hesitant with women? You have a really strong moral code?

[Guy13]

I guess so. Don't like getting hurt. Conservative by nature...

[BrightBubblyKat]

I see. I’m starting to understand you better now. Well, I guess I tend to move too fast sometimes. I figure if a guy takes too long that he’s uninterested and no to a kiss or sex means he’s not interested in me. I always took it that way. Continuing to show interest in you seemed like I would be being forceful and pushy. Which I don’t like to be. Also mutual friends were saying you were all about private schooling and money.

[Asker]

How conservative are you? Are you one of those guys who’s saving himself for marriage? I never mock people’s personal beliefs. I didn’t wait though.

[Wise4myage]

Because is all he will talk about, 24/7. He has no interests in anything else.

[In_Trance]

keep your clothes on and see how long he stays around

[Anonymous]

Everyone behind sex...
Love doesn't exist...