She said she wants to take it slow. Is she being careful or just playing?

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Well. We have been goint out. Last time she went to my place and tried to kissher but turned her head so it was a kiss in the cheek (not unsusual for latin cultures as we both are).
So we started talking about what we wanted in a relationship and how we deal with that stuff. She said she's ready for a new relation so thats why i made my move. Anyway, she said she wants to take things slow when i said we should try being a couple.
Now. What is in my mind.. She said the other days was at her house with a friend (a bloke). (I know this is stupid but...) she reacts with heart yo other guys posts but not mine. The times we went out was because she wanted but just yesterday asked if she had any plans for Saturday and hasn't replied.
So. I dont know if "taking it slow" means she wants to keep me as an option and we'll see later after i check the others. Or she really doesn't want to rush things. i mean. She didn't say yes or no and she didn't went for the kiss. So.. I dont know. Im in the middle of nowhere with her answer.
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So. I tried to hold her hand and just kinda squished it and let go. Last time she wanted to hug while watching the movie and now she said she didn't want to. I mean.. it's ok.. it's just.. I guess it's a few signs and refusals and changes that make me wonder if she even wants anything with me.
She said she wants to take it slow. Is she being careful or just playing?
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