This girl I have been talking too says she really like me and wants to be with me but wants me to be patient and that guys scare her off when they move to fast... but the problem is she texts me 24/7? and wants me to call her like every night? I mean this makes no sense also she takes forever to text me back like 20+ min is this her way of testing my patients? can someone help me?
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Wow.. this is very interesting.. giving mixed signals is often a red flag. when she says she wants to take it slow.. typically means she's not interested in you.. yes I realize you may be going to fast for her.. but if she had high interest level.. she wouldn't say you're going too fast.. The textig thing is an easy fix. Stop texting this girl.. it will cut down on her confusing you. If you don't see her often and she texts you.. you could reply " hey.. lets talk about this on our next date". When she told you to be patient ... a good reply would have been.. "be patient for what"? When girls are being vague... call them out...make them explain what they mean.. Good luck man!0
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