Why is she telling me to go slow?

[Anonymous]

My older cousin that was wanting to move to a city just after meeting a guy for like a week but has the nerve to tell me to go slow with my new boyfriend

[Smoothing]

She has experience and she knows its down side. Listen her

[Asker]

Id say its the guy that's going to quick

[Smoothing]

Then it is your responsibility to tell him to slow down.

[Jamie05rhs]

Did she want to move in with him? Or did she just want to move to his city?

[Asker]

Kinda a bit of both

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. Yeah, she's trippin'. You would be totally justified to call her out.

[Jamie05rhs]

I mean, I think you're both wrong. I think you both should be going slow.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[GreatnessBack]

She doesn't want you to make the SAME mistake.
Also, why would you make the SAME mistake as someone you know closely.
You should look and be like, "Maybe, I should take this slow."