Am I wrong for telling her let’s take it slow and talk every couple of days?

[Anonymous]

So we tried talking and it didn’t work out so after awhile we still care for one another and we said we’ll try being friends and since we both still have feelings I only want to talk every couple days for awhile I feel bad when I have to tell her.

[devilish-cutie]

not wrong but i see no point and what kind of issues you guys even have when you already said talking didn't help...

[Asker]

Sorry about that but nah we used to talk in the past she just treated me poorly and ghosted me for awhile and after trying to come back for so long I let her but we just want to be friends now so we both agreed to take it slow ands it’s been going well I just feel bad when I have to tell her to not talk so much for now and take it slow

[devilish-cutie]

take it slow being frineds? you can't be friends w someone you like, thats a lie... but if you want to take it slow cause she ghosted you that is totally ok so you have nothing to feel bad about, althought in my experience once a ghoster always a ghoster so i wouldn't trust someone like that

[Asker]

Yeah take it slow being friends and I completely agree with you about it she just means a lot to me and I’ve set boundaries for myself I just feel bad because I don’t want to hurt her but I can see from her perspective how it could eventually upset her which is why I feel bad I think

[Asker]

I appreciate u taking the time to give ur opinion

[LazerBean]

Well it's wrong and as much as it's just a waste of time. What is the point? Is not working, so just move on.

[In_Trance]

lame