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Just to make it clear, I’ve never met this guy in person before. I’ve only seen a photo of him. And I’m not sure he’d know who I am unless my ex ever showed him a picture of me, because I’m not on social media or anything.

Anyway, I was walking down a busy shopping high street to go to a shop today and I just happened to spot this guy sitting on a bench. He made eye contact with me and stared my way, but I quickly looked away as I wouldn’t really expect him to know who I am.

Then on the way back along the high street I passed him again and this time he almost kinda shifted his body about on the bench as he saw me and looked up at me again.

On my way back to the car I’d crossed the road and he spotted me again, as he saw me crossing he stood up as if he was going to cross the road towards where I was. Again he was looking over my way.

Do you think he knew who I was? I had my sunglasses on, but feel there was quite a bit of eye contact going on.

If you go for a drive in the country, there's a good chance you'll have to drive over a cattle grid. These are designed to keep livestock in a field while still allowing cars to follow a road that runs through it.

When you drive over one, your car vibrates and shakes and it makes a funny noise. Some people find it fun while others a little intimidating. There have been several motorbike accidents involving them and reports of animals simply rolling over them.

But Where do you stand?

I was stood outside talking to my male colleague. We were finished for the day and we work in the same office. We were stood by our cars and were having a good laugh and chat. Once, we were sitting together for breakfast at work and my crush gave me a small smile and looked away quickly, whereas normally he would gaze, smile warmly and hold eye contact.

We park by the exit. So basically, at our work there is a one way system you drive through at no more than 10mph. There are various car parks branching off this one way system.

My crush was driving towards me and my colleague and he beeped his horn. He was a fair distance away, like a couple of metres. I looked up and him and gestured to myself. He shook his head and then waved at me. When he got closer to us, I asked him if he was beeping at me. He stopped the car, despite another car being behind him. He was grinning and laughing, saying it was an accident. I could see that his seat was very far back. My male colleague made a joke and my crush briefly glanced at him but stayed staring at me.

An hour or so after this, my crush finally opened and reacted to the reel I sent him a few days prior. I think the timing isn’t coincidental, he opened it shortly after seeing me with my male colleague.

Then a few days after this, I was chatting with my crush and the colleague came into conversation. I said “you know, the one I was chatting to in the car park”

My crush immediately said “oh, where I beeped my horn by accident? That was so embarrassing, I was grabbing my bag” etc etc. and he was grinning but avoiding eye contact. Which to me, confirms that it was on purpose.