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He is my first boyfriend ever and we have dated a month only. List:We keep on arguing 3 times on text because i feel bad and empty because he shows no affection, he is not allowed to date, he refuses to even hold my hand, he is leaving to college soon, he doesn't try to hang out with me after school, he is going to a different country this summer, i feel hurt, i feel like he is distancing himself from me, texting me less and less, my parents tell me that this won't work out that i am just going to get really hurt , my eyes are swollen from crying last night because what my parents said is hitting me hard now, He is muslim and his family might not accept me, he hasn't changed just one armed hugs no holding hands no kiss, everything is so dry because he doesn't like pda he says he does that in private but he never tries, lastly, he told me that if i want to i should just leave twice. But he has been sweeter that any guy has ever been to me, he made me feel special, he sent me the sweetest messages so I don't know what to do

I've compiled a list of things about someone I've known since I was 16-we only started dating 8 months ago, I need an opinion from all of you about whether these are red flags and if I should stay or run or talk it out?
Thank you

1) He works as a lawyer but I've noticed that he would put the medical profession down- I work as a paediatric nurse and I am in medical school. I noticed he would say things like "the medical profession are crap, useless and lazy" and even though I tell him off and he apologises, he still makes some negative comments...
2) He says he has high standards and wants a girl who can take care of herself "because it saves him from having to do all the rest" Although I look after myself, I notice that whenever I get stressed from university and I need him the most, he withdraws, but when he is having a bad day, I'm always there for him.
3) We met up at a cafe 3 days after Christmas and he appeared angry at me for no reason (to this day I have no idea what I did). I asked him what was wrong, but he dismissed my question and I thought he might have been stressed from work. From the look on his eyes and his face and eyes, I've never felt so scared. It's hard to explain, but I started to have that awful uncomfortable feeling in my stomach. And of course when he saw how scared I was, he accused me of looking confused and then told me it's probably why I "don't have my life together."
4) He asked me one time "so after med school, what are you going to be? A GP or surgeon?" I told him I wanted to be a GP, and he replied "Oh, is that it?"
5) On Christmas day, when my parents invited him over to our house for dinner, he asked me "aren't you going to lose some weight?" My boyfriend is a triathlete whereas I am a marathon runner and swimmer and so I started to feel anxious and insecure about my body.
6) He didn't grow up from money, but ever since he got a job as a senior lawyer in a corporate law firm, he has been showing off.

One of the best long-lasting bands. I love Adams voice but he can be a total douche on The Voice. So im really only a fan of his voice, not him as a person. Plus i’ll only watch the Voice if Usher comes back. Anyways :D

Fave Songs I can relate to:

1. I sing “MAKES ME WONDER” whenever my boyfriend doesn't put in as much effort as me
(I still dont have a reason, and you dont have the time, and it really makes me wonder...)

2. I sing “SHE WILL BE LOVED” whenever we’re having a good day.
(I dont mind spending everyday, out on your corner in the pourin raaaaiiin)

3. I sing “WHAT LOVERS DO” whenever i thinj about visiting him.
(Ooh Ooh Ooh been wishin for you, Ooh Ooh tryna do what lovers do)

4. I feel like he sings “THIS LOVE” whenever i threaten to breakup.
(This love has taken its toll on me, she said Goodbye, too many times before)

5. I sing “FEELINGS” whenever i fall for someone
(I got these feeeelings for youuuuu)

6. I sang “LOVE SOMEBODY” a lot while single.
(I really wanna love somebody, I really wanna dance the night away, I know we’re only halfway there, but you can take meeee aaaall the way)

7. I sing “SUNDAY MORNING” when im in love.
(That may be aaaall i need, In the darkness he is aaaall iiii seeee)

8 I sing “THE SUN” when i feel like i wanna ghost
(And mama I've been cryin' Cause things ain't how they used to be. She said the battles almost won
And we're only several miles from the sun)

9. I sing “SECRET” whenever im crushing.
(I know I don't know you But I want you so bad. Everyone has a secret But can they keep it? Oh no they can't.)

Other Faves I like:
10. Give a Little More
11. One More Night
12. Harder to Breathe
13. Animals
14. Never Gonna Leave this Bed
15. Moves Like Jagger
16. This Summers Gonna Hurt
17. Must Get Out

Not Really a fan of Daylight, Sugar, Maps, Misery and Payphone but they were catchy. Im pissed cause i couldve gone to their concert during this Utah Convention but i didn't have money for all that. #MaroonFive