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Spent a nice afternoon with a guy I’ve known for almost 10 years.. at the water near my house. We’d been intimate a few years ago before he moved.. but visits since have largely just been friendly. He did have a history of acting weird about other guys being nice to me before and after he moved.
When we went to the water.. he’d told me to bring my bikini and towels. I told him I had to get a new one so when I went to buy it.. he offered to buy it. When we got to the lake.. it was warm and he sprayed some lotion on my back. Not before he’d said oh nice when he saw my bikini bottoms. When he sprayed the lotion on my back.. he massaged the area and proceeded to my legs. It’s been long enough that I didn’t want to misread this as flirt.. I do care for him as a friend a great deal.. but it there is a part of me that enjoys his company like that. Opinions helpful.
I made a joke about gaining weight in my butt and he chuckled and said I can see that before he smacked my butt a couple times. When we went into the water.. he splashed me a few times. Just curious if I should take this as a friendly visit between friends or his way to show he’s still interested/flirt.

Friendly visit with friend that I’ve known since 2010.. he was in town and he invited me to the lake and said to bring my bikini. It was warm and he had sunscreen so he offered to spray some on my back.. and give me a massage.
He started at my neck.. down my back.. to my legs.. when he sprayed lotion near my inner thigh I mentioned that it tickled when he heard me giggle so he sprayed me two more times. I’d also put on some extra weight and I joked that most of it had went to my butt.
He said I can see that and patted me on the butt a couple times.
We were briefly intimate in 2016 before he moved away. He’d been weird about other guys being nice to me before he moved and then even after.. up until recently.
This is the first time he’s engaged in any form of PDA so trying to figure out how I should take this.. flirt?
Friendly gesture? He dropped me off at home he offered to give me a hug and put his arms around my lower back.. any opinions helpful 🙂

Spent time at lake with longtime male friend recently.. previous history of intimacy but not for a few years. After we got settled.. he offered to give me a massage.. (I was in a bikini.. trip was his idea).. he’d rubbed my neck.. shoulders.. entire back and legs. I’d recently put on some weight and I joked that it went to my butt and he said I could tell and smacked it a couple times. Before he’d only ever been like that in private.. so since this was public.. was curious if this sign of pda.. was intended to be flirty.. territorial.. or something else? We went in the water for a little bit and he did splash me a couple times. Just curious as being public along this line is new for him. Being that it’s been awhile since we’ve been intimate.. along with a history of being weird when other guys were nice to me during the time we were intimate and since then.. wanting to make sure I didn’t misread this visit.. as it came across at the very least as flirty.. opinions appreciated..

Longtime guy friend.. brief intimacy a few years ago. He’d act weird when other guys were nice to me before he moved and a few times since then. He’s normally casual about relationships. Have visited a few times since he moved. Most recent visit he invited me to the lake and said bring my bikini. He sprayed lotion on my back.. rubbed my shoulders, neck/back and legs. He smacked my butt a couple times when I’d mentioned that the weight had gained has recently went there.. he said I know and smacked it. Weird part is that he said he liked friends with benefits but acting weird when other guys were nice to me didn’t make sense.. especially since he’s moved. The lake visit was nice but did leave me confused. It’s the first time he’d done anything public like that. Right after he moved he said we’re friends, I don’t know when I’ll see you.. and “if the benefits happen”.. I’m just hoping I didn’t misread the lake visit as flirt. When we were in the water he did splash me a couple times. Opinions appreciated 🙂