Search Results: not over his exes

My best friend jokingly told me I’m his type?

So we’ve been best friends since we were 14. There have been crushes on both sides, but always the other didn’t feel the same way and we just got over it and became even closer friends. We are completely comfortable with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he ask if my ex was better during sex?

We both have exes. I dont think he was over his ex when we were having sex. While i was in top he drew me closer and whispered in my ear "who's better me or your ex?" He pretty much kept asking until i said it louder and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He thinks I’m too good for him. I think he’s too good for me. How can we fight these insecurities?

We are both super insecure about some things in our relationship. We’ve been together 5 months. He’s mentioned in the past that he thinks I deserve better and he’s not good enough for me. Meanwhile, sometimes I feel the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend is obsessed about my past?

Let’s call this man Joe. Joe and I started to date when I was 20 and he was 25, we lasted four years but there were many many indescretions on his part. We broke up for a few years and got back together about 2.5 years...

Milapants

Xper 3 Age: 34

HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"

One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Dating

Why do exes come back after they fucked you over and expect you to just trust them right off the bat?

Seems to be a common theme of my exes coming back into my life and when they do they expect for me to just trust them after they fucked me over, what is up with guys and this? I am all for forgiving for my own sanity but...

Rosegold020

Xper 5 Age: 25

Family & Friends

How to handle someone with severe depression?

Hello, This is going to sound very strange. A while ago one of my exes friends seemed to start talking to me out of the blue when we split up. He’s married etc and we weren’t really friends to start with so I did...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How did you get over the worst breakup in your life?

Recently I founded out that my boyfriend moved to Europe to be with a girl who he met online. He lied to me saying he had to move to Europe because he's in the military and had to move there for work. We have been in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I be mad at my boyfriend?

I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight. We are a new couple and don’t get to see each other right now except through face time because I go to college kind of far away from my hometown. I’m moving back home at...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can exes ever be just friends?

Should I reach out? I want to reach out to an ex who broke up with me over a year ago. Breakup: May 2019 Last talked/Saw One Another: August 2019 I unfollwed him on social media in January 2020 and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex boyfriend run in?

I ran into my ex at a bar. I was with a friend of mine and two of my guy friends. One of my guy friends that was with me (we were sitting next to each other) my ex has questioned if we are dating more than once. My ex...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My partner is ending messages to his ex wife with "x's", would you be ok with this?

My partner got a message from his ex while sitting next to me and I spotted the message above from him ended in "x", when he scrolled up to look at the detail I notice his other message above was the same for a different...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I get over the guilt of triggering my exes abandonment issues?

I didn’t understand what abandonment issues feel like until I was ghosted out of the blue by the guy who I believe had abandonment issues. And there is where that ended and should have stayed. I mean, I can’t force...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend says "You will never find anyone better than me?" Emotionally draining. Is he a narcissists or loves drama? What does he want from me?

When I would bring up slightly upsetting circumstances; leaving a broom and dust pan on the floor of the bathroom overnight, he would find ways to turn it against me or bring heated issues to unrelated topics. He would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he still not over his ex (s) if he says this?

Wondering if a distant friend of mine is still heartbroken over his ex. - Mentioning how lost in life he feels - Mentioning how his heart is messed up - Referring to love as "lovey-dovey bullshit" - Warning me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

My Bittersweet Depression...

First and foremost I would like to put forth the fact that this piece of literature is nothing more than my own personal opinion on my own depression. This will be written with my depression, my mindset and my experience...

A_Nihilist

Xper 7 Age: 31

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Why would my boyfriend lie to me about his past relationship?

When we first started dating my boyfriend told me how "different" things are with me (implying I'm special). It felt like he's never felt that way for anyone else before when I believed everything he said. But after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I tell he likes me or not over text?

Basic Facts- 1. Because of obvious things rn, I can only text him. 2. We've been friends for two years now, I liked him the first year, then over the summer i felt like i had deep feelings for him. 3. Sometimes we act as...

Anonymous

(18-24)