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28F, I just came back from a convention where I met a good amount of famous people (even some men from my favorite shows, band etc) & I was pretty laxed. For the most part they were all attractive, at times I had a hard time making eye contact but got better as I met more people. But for the average “fan girl” I was pretty chill, now why is it when I meet average men in my caliber I get so tense? They’re not nearly as wealthy, well known & while a few average men I met were decent looking they’re no where close to the celebs looks wise. I know it’s b/c it’s a superficial interaction & will become nothing more with the celebs, there’s nothing riding on it vs meeting men from the dating apps & potentially being in a LTR with one. The day before the convention I was talking to someone from the dating app for about 2 weeks & it was going okay but when we met in person I just wasn’t feeling it, was there about 15 min but dipped out b/c the drinks were taking too long & I didn’t want him to spend money on me, waste each other’s time & I had a long day. Being as old as I am & still never have been in a LTR is a red flag, especially when it’s conflicting since people say you’re attractive but men don’t notice you 🤷🏻‍♀️

So I ended up dating someone this summer 3 months ago. I didn't know I was going to fall for him straight off the bad because he wasn't my Unitas type as always. He was 15 yeas older than me and has a lot more life experience then myself. However I began to notice little things , that I never let go un noticed normally. He was extremely mean to his mother and would go through periods of causing her out. And the last time he did so I ended up looking into places he could stay. Because she told him to get out. Although he started off very good and he told me I was his angle. He would do anything for me , he ended up coming to church with me and involving himself in my life. He still had his ways. He would get angry at me if I choose to spend time with my friends. He would tell me I was wrong for not staying with him. He would also get super mad if he thought I wore something too sexy. He would get really nasty to me and act out. He'd punch the wheel of his car till he broke out in a sweat , and curse everyone around him out. And once he got that out he would tell me that this was only his frustration. And the next day he would be better. He would then tell me my weekends belonged to him , therefore I was to always spend them with him. My family and friends began to get super suspicious, because they stared noticing me moving in his direction more so. I would I just listen to everything he said because I thought inwas helping. And me coming from a religious background , I thought I was supposed to be submissive. He was very aggressive while I was very mile mannered. He wanted to spend every waking moment with me , showing up unannounced. It's like he had no shame , the more I'd try to help him get a place he was happy in his car and wanted to entertain a life with me like that. He started off amazing and waa really good to me. Then he got comfortable. Trying to impregnate me every time he'd release. There was no baby coming with no place for it.