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The PUA kind of books
I want to know if this is true:

"Here’s the deal, for us ugly men it’s perfectly okay that we are not running around acting like some extroverted alpha males because that doesn’t go with the woman’s frame of reality, and quite frankly it most likely doesn’t go with our reality either unless we’re of some sort of importance.

It’s actually best for us ugly men to seem nervous, or shy, or act like the girl is way out of our league. Acting cool is a bad idea.

When these girls see an ugly guy, they’re going to already have an idea in their heads of how that guy would act, and acting outside of that frame is only going to shatter her reality and overwhelm her, so if we’re shy, and can’t help but act shy, then THAT’S A GOOD THING because it’s congruent with what she’s expecting, so no alarms go off or anything.

We stay congruent to her frame. In her frame when she see’s us ugly men she’s expecting us to be shy, insecure, she thinks she would be a dream come true for us, she thinks we could never attract a girl as hot as her, heck, she thinks we could never attract a girl PERIOD."

Just your personal opinion, from experiences, or stories that you have been told from friends or family. This question is for both genders.