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I appreciates detailed opinions. I think teachers should only be allowed physical contact with students if they approves. If a student don't want a hug or be touched, they shouldn't be forced to it. It's a difference between a handshake and a hug. Hugging people is too intimate and we all have different personal spaces.

One of my siblings are still in high school and her class had a mental health day in school. It was a guy who visited school to talk about it and according to her he was probably in his 40s. Before he entered the class room, he hanged with some girls (pupils) and my sister randomly walked past. She told me that he touched two girls' hair, back of the necks and shoulders. They probably had met him before and ignored it. The thing she said she noticed was that he only touched girls like that. He only did handshakes and give me five with the boys. He also grabbed and touched my sister's forearm when she gave him a handshake. Every pupils had to give him a handshake. She said to me 10 seconds wasn't enough for him and he wanted to do it in 15 - 20 seconds.

For me this sounds like a weird behavior. I don't think he wanted to be inappropriate or bad, but he shouldn't treat girls and boys differently. He should also treat shy people with more respect. Shy people are shy for a reason and needs time. Don't invade their personal space too much! Touching strangers in that way is also weird. Which good professional wants to touch girls' neck and hair?

I met this girl through her friend. She’s a couple years older than me. Her friend started laughing at my joke and talking to me. Her friend acted flirty and started finding any way she can to talk to me. She asks me to be around her and her friend and her friend has an issue. This girl finds any reason for me to be around her. Like hey want to sit with us, hey want to walk with us. It’s like really weird. Then we took selfies when it was her friend’s turn being next to me she had to be next to me and in between us. This girl doesn’t talk to me in front of her friend and helps her friend approach me. Well she does stuff like copy me then tell me she’s doing it. She mimicked the way I walked then told me she did it. Then she says to her friend “he’s 6’ tall with long legs ooh”. She does it in front of her friend and the friend doesn’t seem impressed. She offered me a ride home when it was completely unnecessary. She hesitated when I accepted and like shocked but did it. She laughs at stuff I say. Then when we had square dancing said we’re going to be partners. I told her I’m not into selfies she says that they will take care of it and a day or two later comes and gets me for a picture. Some guys said stupid stuff like we did stuff when she gave me a ride and told on them and said “they’re picking on me and CJ”She went up to a guy and asked about me right in front of me. She talks in a tone and smiles at me then will say stuff like “you’ve been really inappropriate recently”. She smiles and says hi. She smiles a lot at me. I went to open the door because she was coming in a class I was in and saw her in the window she smiled and had this look in her eyes. She doesn’t talk to me in front of her friend but tries to be around me and talk to me when she isn’t around. We were going in for a test and she says “are you ready?”. Why does she find any way to be around me

I met this girl through her friend. She’s a couple years older than me. Her friend started laughing at my joke and talking to me. Her friend acted flirty and started finding any way she can to talk to me. She asks me to be around her and her friend and her friend has an issue. This girl finds any reason for me to be around her. Like hey want to sit with us, hey want to walk with us. It’s like really weird. Then we took selfies when it was her friend’s turn being next to me she had to be next to me and in between us. This girl doesn’t talk to me in front of her friend and helps her friend approach me. Well she does stuff like copy me then tell me she’s doing it. She mimicked the way I walked then told me she did it. Then she says to her friend “he’s 6’ tall with long legs oooh”. She does it in front of her friend and the friend isn’t too crazy about it. On top of that she offered me a ride home when it was completely unnecessary. She hesitated when I accepted and like shocked but did it. She laughs at stuff I say. Then when we had square dancing said we’re going to be partners. My dad tells me it’s like a sign she really likes me almost love offering me a ride. Like I told her I’m not into selfies she says that they will take care of it and a day or two later comes and gets me for a picture. Some guys said stupid stuff like we did stuff when she gave me a ride and told on them and said “they’re picking on me and CJ”She went up to a guy and asked about me right in front of me. She says stuff in a tone like “you’ve been so inappropriate lately” but doesn’t care. Someone told her that I said she dropped my jaw she acted like she was surprised but I think she enjoyed hearing that. She smiles at me a lot and talks in a tone I can’t describe I’m sure you would recognize it if you heard it. When I looked at her with her friend she waved. She seems quick to defend me and acts like I can’t do anything wrong. Is she flirting? What is it that she’s doing