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Guy has criminal background—when do you let the past be the past in dating someone?
Over the course of a year, I have fallen in love with a man who occassionally comes to service my work place’s building. He has also developed feelings for me which we both recently admitted to. The...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he into me, or am I overthinking?
I met a guy on a dating site that is made to find relationships, not hookups. We are both in our 20s. He’s in med school and I finished school and work a good job. He messaged me first and as we chatted he asked for my...
Anonymous
(25-29) My first date told me something I don’t quite understand, what should I do?
I’m 25 and he’s 26. He’s a med student and is at school or studying constantly. I didn’t have any expectations for him in particular on a first date but my expectations for a man that I pursue is to be a devout boyfriend...
Anonymous
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Is there any way to change the dynamic with a guy you already slept with?
You know how when you sleep with someone without going on dates first. Some guys view you differently after that right? How do you change that dynamic between the two of you? to where you'd be seen as dating material and...
nojokecarmichael
Yoda Age: 29 Ladies: Time is of the essence to find a good man. #relationships #ltr
Time is of the essence for women to find a quality man for a long term relationship. From 18 until 34, women enjoy a very favorable ratio of unmarried men to unmarried women. There are literally more men that they know...
SunnyFlorida
Xper 5 Age: 28 What do guys look for in a girl?
What kinda girls do guys see as dating material. Do u like makeup or nah. Do you want her to be confident or nah. Clingy? Curious? Experienced? What’re you actually after in a girlfriend?
claireAdeladaide
Xper 4 Age: 21 What book or material has been most helpful to you in dating?
"Intimate Connections" by David D. Burns, MD was useful to me.
SunnyFlorida
Xper 5 Age: 28 Does a guy have to be perfect to be dating material?
Perfect as in having these things & if he doesn't, he won't be seen as someone worth dating Sharp prominent jawline Athletic/muscular/fit 6ft & over High social statuts Makes a? decent amount of money
Anonymous
(30-35) Can a male-female maturity gap be a dealbreaker in a relationship (if he is at a different stage of life/more mature). Is he only interested in sex?
Do guys who are nearing 30 and date 20-21 year old girls who are still emotionally immature only do it for the sex and they don’t really see the girls as girlfriend material? I also see many men on the internet brag...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does anyone else find the war on tobacco a complete joke?
I've smoked cigars, I've smoked pipes quite frankly i feel warm and fuzzy when I use them no I am not addicted. Tobacco has a history of use dating thousands of years, true excessive nicotine will kill you so will...
CreamySeed
Xper 7 Age: 37 
If your friends continue to give you bad advice would you still be their friend?
So my boyfriend and I were going through a rough patch. At times when I’m frustrated I like to vent to my friends. So from this my friends don’t like my boyfriend they think I can do better. Boyfriend and I broke up and I...
Anonymous
(30-35) In Defense Of Marriage
This site provides a venue for frequent discussions about the merits of marriage. Most of those who write are young to middle-aged men, and it appears that most have been married but are now divorced. They preach that...
u What should I do about my boyfriend’s little sister who copies everything I do/like?
I’m 23, been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, and his sister is 18. I used to think her and I were just similar at first, but then more and more things seemed to be copied from me. For example, I’m a couple months...
Anonymous
(25-29) 2 Reasons Why Women Travel Solo That They Will Never Tell Their Dating Partners
If you meet a woman and she say's she travels abroad alone just have fun? DO NOT take her seriously as relationship material. Don't be fooled by Hollywood and her explanation that she is on a journey to "find herself"...
Guys, would you want to date a woman who played weekly co-ed sports with friends?
If she played a sport with both guys and girls and was friends with everyone, would you see her as dating material? If it were a sport like soccer or volleyball, would you be turned off?
Anonymous
(30-35) What I've learned from past friendships and relationships
Lorenzo ~ Some people are better friendship material then boyfriend material We were close friends ( actually we still are Lol. ) and he decided we should step it up a notch . I didn't think it was a bad idea at the time...
glowingsunsets2006
Xper 4 Age: 19 Can being shy be an attractive quality in men?
Also, what's your approach to shy guys you fancy? So I'm on the dating apps, looking for a long term relationship, mother of my children, wife material etc. I've found most women list confidence as a quality they...
Ronald_25
Xper 7 Age: 32 
Stay at Home Dads...Not that crazy!
It is often said, in old times men were the providers. The hunters, the bosses etc. Which I can actually understand. But today is different from then, today we aren't really allowed to hunt for our own food without...
Robertcw
Editor Age: 32 My "Life Isn't Fair" Journal Entry/Rant
I just woke up. I had a bad dream. A realistic one. I have so many thoughts racing through my head right now, all jumbled and chaotic like a tornado. I was thinking about why I was unhappy with myself. Why I despise...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 