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• ideally a good relationship requires 4 key pillars to last the test of time.
• physical attraction, mental attraction, emotional attraction and sexual attraction.
• which all need to remain in sync with each other.
• if anyone of them fall out of alignment. the rest of the relationship could follow. if you don't address it together and course correct the matter.
• real love is putting your partners needs and desires above your own. in all aspects of your relationship together.
• having an active sex life together with your partner. is pretty much the clue that holds everything else together.
• lack of sex together can often lead to one or both considering. other options for their own sexual desires to be dealt with. if they can no longer have them meant by their partner.

When I was a younger man, I frequently said that if I was not initially attracted to a woman, it would probably never happen and there was no sense in wasting time pursuing her as a romantic partner. That statement was true. It never did happen - not when I was younger - perhaps because I never gave an "unattractive" (unattractive to me) woman a chance.

In 2015, I started dating a woman who was a good match for me in many ways. She was a retired judge, obviously bright and articulate, and we had many other common interests. She also fit the "type" of woman who I usually pursue. She is petite, has dainty features, and she enjoys physical affection. I was very quickly attracted to her. We eventually had a sexual relationship that was very satisfying for both of us, but I broke up with her because she never fell in love with me as I fell for her.

Looking back on that relationship, I don't know why I was physically attracted to her. Most guys who met her would probably rate her as a 3/10, and so would I, but when I was dating her, I thought she was a 7/10 or 8/10. Maybe the years and experiences have changed me, or maybe I just developed the attraction because I gave her a chance.

Have you ever had that experience?