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I feel like my genes are so defective that it'd be immoral to curse an innocent human being with them.

My issues aren't really something that would be very harmful for my partner in a relationship - in fact, I've been told that my issues would actually make me a good candidate for a relationship - but my issues cause suffering to the person themselves, which would be unfair to inflict on someone.

And if my child was a boy, my genes (physical weakness, social ineptitude, anxiety, short stature, etc) would also make it difficult for him to obtain a relationship, sex, or social acceptance, which would make his life hell.

But I do hope to get married someday. If I find an ideal mate & he wants kids, I might (if I get over my anxiety & low self-esteem) be willing for him to get a surrogate for a child using his genes (and the egg donation of a woman with optimal genes), & then I'd raise the child with him. So he'd still be able to have a child with his own genes, and raise them as a family, but it won't be inflicted with my defective genes. However I understand that surrogates cost like $100,000 so a lot of guys may not be willing.