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First we live together with our three girls, and have been together over a year.

Recently I went back to work, and she is home looking for a new job with lots of time on her hands.

She recently lost thirty pounds (20 of which she gained when we got together) and looks better than she has in years (44 years old).

Since returning to work she is MIA every morning. Says errands or house work. Stuff is done but, she has lots of time beyond that.

Today i came home early and saw her gym outfit. She is going in yoga pants and sports bra with a tank that isn't there and five inches of cleavage (fake boobs). I'm like, normally I don't say anything, but that outfit makes me uncomfortable. You wearing it to the gym, sorry, but guys will roll up on you and it looks like you want attention.

Says she's always wore this stuff when she's in shape. When we went to the gym together before she rolled in a tshirt or something with coverage (but heavier).

She has a history of cheating (not on me) and some of those were gym guys (most were not, and she cheated a lot on most of her guys). Says she's over that and loves me and is totally happy.

To me it it could be she feels she looks good again and is happy wearing stuff she's always worn. But that stuff lead to guys hitting on her and her cheating. she's been more lovey when I get home too, which is sometimes a sign.

She also more more interested in my schedule lately and when I'll be home (which alone, whatever)

Am I freaking out over nothing? Does she just want attention or should I be more worried cause she's been going mia here and there? If she isn't cheating it seems like she is looking to me...

Thanks for the long read!

Is it good to have that policy for a sports team? My team had a loss the other day against a team who we were much better player for player. A few of our players think they're way better than they are, don't focus on their flaws, will focus on doing the fancy stuff but not the basics.

They will also sometimes pull out last minute, turn up late, use the word me or I every two or 3 words.

Should we bring in this policy? These guys are good players but they aren't superstars or anything.