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2021: Me (31) has romantic interest in somebody I work with (21). She also had romantic interest in me. We started flirting and hanging out. One night she comes over and we have a couple of drink (measured 3oz of liqour in mixed drink with ice). I get up courage to ask to kiss her and she says yes. Night progresses and we end up in bed together and she spends the night with me. In the morning I intimate intimacy again, shortly after she leaves. I messaged her about how special I thought the night was and how happy I was to spend the night holding her (I was head over heels for her for MONTHS before but she had a boyfriend), she tells me that I raped her. I tell her to tell the cops and get a rape kit done, that I'd plead guilty in a second if she pressed charges (as a guy it's not my place to define rape). She says no, we end up dating for about 9 months. During that time she makes a few subtle comments about me what happened, and after talking to her for a bit and realizing she's been unhappy for a while and reccomend therapy. She's goes to therapy and a few months ago left for finishing up school overseas and broke up with me. At this point I had already told her I loved her (felt like I had for a very very long time, since before she even messaged me I couldn't stop thinking about her). While she's been gone I have sent her a message here and there, ar first she responded normally seemingly wanting to have a conversation and even wished me a happy birthday unprovoked. I sent her a video about a month ago that was funny, no message, just trying to give her some laughs; she told me "please stop messaging me". So I have since then until yesterday, which I only said congratulations for graduating college, no response though I'm sure she has me blocked. Anyways to the point. I am still head over heels in love with her. She's been gone for months but is always prevalent on my mind and I know starts working again in a few weeks. . . Can she ever forgive me?

I asked a while ago about if I misread things with this girl at an ice cream store. She would always talk to me about music and podcasts cause I started a conversation the first time I saw her. I went in a few times, she was excited to see me and we'd talk a bit. Even to where her coworker would give her a funny look.
Last time I went there, I mentioned I had been moving and she was concerned I was moving out of state, but she said she was happy I was staying local. So before I left I asked if I could give her my number for the podcasts 😉

She said she had a boyfriend. So I was apologetic and left.

It's been a few weeks, and I saw her today. She wasn't as warm as first but we still talked, she asked what kind of schedule do I work, how my day was going and she told me about hers. When I was paying with her, I apologized for the last time, and she was very sweet and said it was all good and I left. I said I did enjoy talking to her as I turned to leave.

But I was really confused, I figured there was flirting and possibly an attraction because how she was worried I wasn't gonna come by.

Even though she has a boyfriend, does she maybe like me in some way? Or just enjoying talking to me?