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Consider an average boy (Mr Average) born somewhere between 1990 and 2005.

May have a post-high school degree (college or even bachelors degree).

Does not have a car or bicycle.

Works full time. Makes somewhere between above minimum wage to close to average.

Money expends completely towards housing and food.

And since the fun stuff aren't free (e. g. jetski, firing range, trampolines, rock climbing or aquaparks), he resorts to playing video games (e. g. fortnite, minecraft, age of empires, dead by daylight) and mas tur bating to po rn and watching disney+/netflix. Like literally every day.

May or may not smoke weed/vape.

Never went to vacation outside the country. He's too broke for anything!

May speak 2 languages. May be of another origin (e. g. from Europe/Asia/America)

Since food prices went up, he resorts to cooking at home in bulk simple dishes, so that he eats the same meal over the course of 2-3 days.

Stays inside mostly because he's too broke to afford the fun activities outside.

Tends to skip barber appointments sometimes (or just lets his hair grow long but might limit grooming it properly).

Doesn't go to parties because he can't really bring anything nor afford meetup fee's.

Doesn't bother going to nightclubs.

Doesn't go to the gym. He can't afford it.

So how is Mr Average today supposed to get girls and stop being a loser? Work 2 jobs? Hardly possible.

Call me crazy but it's not like I need to feel like lots of money is spent in order to have fun like Andrew Tate does, although I would love it if I could but it's not because I'd spend entire thousands of euros to do what Andrew Tate does. It's that the actual fun and exciting hobbies aren't cheap. They are all locked behind payments.

As a broke person it's feeling mundane to repeat the same free things, that aren't even fun to me.

I have browsed links with headlines like "50 free hobbies" and I found exactly 0 of them to my liking.

What's fun for me? Beach raiding. Riding Jet skis and quads and motorcycles. Grilling. Traveling throughout the nations and embracing various cultures (remember when people made fun of Alice in Alice in Wonderland when Alice returned from China?). Women. Shooting guns. These sorts of things.

Not arguing over politics or religion, participating in alcohol consumption contests, stupid ass memes, turning my Steam level to 100, collecting skins in Fortnite, failing at getting girls in the 100 decibels loud nightclubs (and vainly wasting 100 EUR on it), abusing my health with stuff like Fentanyl, Xanax, whatever. Hell even cooking is boring but I do that as a necessary chore.

Can you imagine any of these being "hobbies, that are free" ?

During first date, she didn’t even offer to pay for any drinks and I purchased every round. She did seem stingy though like she was talking about picking up free drinks left on the table and always trying to get discounts for stuff even though she’s an high earner. Although she did seem to genuinely enjoy it.

There have been occasions with quite successful women who make very nice livings, who evidently did not want to talk to me again after that, and they really did not make any serious effort to split the bill, and seemed perfectly content to let me pay for it. I hate buying stuff for people who don't care about me. I find it very frustrating. I'm a very generous person if someone does care about me, but it makes me furious when I feel I am taken advantage of in some way.