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I [18M] recently ran into one my childhood [18F] friends again in college for the first time in eight years. I didn’t really use social media at all during that time so I hardly talked to her. We’re now friends again and I’ve started hanging out with her friend group. I swear I have ZERO interest in her romantically or sexually, I’d just like to be friends like we used to be.
Basically, I was sitting a few rows in front of her in a lecture and I heard her talking to her friends about how she only wants casual stuff out of relationships at the moment. I sometimes go bars with her group after our classes are finished and I’ve seen her chat up several different guys and leave for the night.
I know it’s absolutely none of my business and she’s free to do whatever (or whoever) she wants, but I don’t know why it’s weirding me out so much? Like I said I feel nothing towards her romantically or sexually so there’s no jealousy involved. I guess it’s kinda weird jumping from knowing her in elementary school to this?
Basically, I was sitting a few rows in front of her in a lecture and I heard her talking to her friends about how she only wants casual stuff out of relationships at the moment. I sometimes go bars with her group after our classes are finished and I’ve seen her chat up several different guys and leave for the night.
I know it’s absolutely none of my business and she’s free to do whatever (or whoever) she wants, but I don’t know why it’s weirding me out so much? Like I said I feel nothing towards her romantically or sexually so there’s no jealousy involved. I guess it’s kinda weird jumping from knowing her in elementary school to this?
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You expect us to believe you guys all went to the bar without first going home to change or put your knapsack away? It’s obvious to me you have a brain injury. Nobody believes your lies about me.
Awww, young love...
Two options buddy. Either A) you actually do like her and you're either lying to yourself or to GAG (which is weird), or B) you're a judgmental, gender-role-loving man and you believe it's your business to be involved in and pass judgment of other people's personal lives, especially women, and especially women you know.
So it's not so much that you're weirded out knowing about your childhood friend's sex life (also, you were a few rows ahead of her and you clearly heard all that? maybe she's baiting you, dude); it's more like why do you REALLY care? If you were a genuine non-judgmental friend, then whether she's involved in weekend orgies or has never kissed another person should make zero difference to you.
Discussing private life is so cringy at the best of times. Even on a website like this, it is frankly embarrassing to go into details.