Is it wrong for a woman to accept a free meal from a guy if she is pretty sure she doesn't want to see him again?

[Anonymous]

There have been occasions with quite successful women who make very nice livings, who evidently did not want to talk to me again after that, and they really did not make any serious effort to split the bill, and seemed perfectly content to let me pay for it. I hate buying stuff for people who don't care about me. I find it very frustrating. I'm a very generous person if someone does care about me, but it makes me furious when I feel I am taken advantage of in some way.

Yes

No

[OlderAndWiser]

I think a woman who does that is being deceptive. Those experiences help you to appreciate good girls!

[bededazzle]

i think in general women shouldn't accept my offer to pay, or at least do the one objection game, but then, i don't mind if i like her. but if it's like a third date, and by the end of it she already knows she won't see me again, come on

[EmmaMary]

Personally I call that being extremely deceitful, and can certainly give women a very poor name.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yes, taking advantage of someone like that is pretty shitty.

[Billlewis]

What if she told you that she'd just gone out with another guy (me) last week, and that I asked her to let me pay for her date with you?

[Billlewis]

No, absolutely not, and I wish women would stop feeling guilty about being in this situation.

[Nikki1989]

You must be really petty to sulk over food.

[bededazzle]

i'm just curious--have you ever paid for a first date (if you date men)?

[Anonymous]

just wait till the cucks and femcels gaslight you

[slatyb]

You aren't entitled to a second date.