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My attitude towards girls has always been pretty arrogant, puffed up, and yeah... like a player. I've seen guys before who catered to girls and always lmao at em, swearing that could never be me. What I always do is play it cool. Usually their confidence shakes and it's easy to tell. I'm in college though, in a new place, 2nd yr. Lot of Black girls here, and a lot with a similar look. 1 of them had it too. She's 5'3, SUPER THICC, had on black tights and kept a poker face. I thought it was no problem, so I went to using my main move. First, ignore the booty and upper legs, don't look down. I tried my BEST. I knew she was thicc though and wore black tights. After about 3 seconds I knew I can't, went, "uggh!"-looked down, eyes landing on her booty, then upper legs. Instantly, jaw dropped😲😲. My cocky act disappeared and it pissed me off, so I looked up, hoping to distract her. But I looked right into her face... and she kept her face straight. I was like, "uhh"..."uh"... and she stayed😑😑😑. I gave up, unable to break through it! Friday, I went up to her... apologized. I told her how I used to be, what I tried on her and the result... and why it didn't work on her. My ego hit rock bottom. Was it the right thing to admit that to her?

What do I base this statement (that men like it) on? Google "strong legs" or "muscular thighs" or something along the lines on this very forum, and look up the answers from guys.

And "somewhat young" means... I don't know, but my imagined line is below middle-aged men, but well above 30.

I suppose I don't have to ask about muscular butts. For example, a girl with ridiculously muscular thighs (too low bodyfat for my liking), who has no official fame like real models (i e she is only known within the fitness community), has 2,5 million followers on Instagram, and the only thing she has done to deserve that, is by having very musular thighs... and ofc by flexing them and showing them off... or well, obviously she has some other videos as well, but that's how she gained her fame and reputation. You could google "Bakhar Nabieva" to look her up. And while she is probably a bit too much for most men (she is not that large, so if she just ate herself a bit fatter, she would - perhaps - have a 10/10-body according to yougn men). And since she started using those black eye lenses... combined with her unnatural body (I base that fact on that she's developing a deeper voice) ... she enters the uncanny valley for me, and I love muscular/strong legs on girls, so she's not a good example of what I mean with the main question.

Now there are of course fitness models with more followers, with bodies that all men like.

And perhaps this thing with muscular girls is something in the West (+ south america) as almost all famous, muscular girls are from the West or SA. Ok perhaps my example with Russia does not count as "West". But I would prefer not to write "the part of the world where a majority is white".