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I have been with my boyfriend 4 years. He goes away to work for three weeks and is Home for two. We started to drift apart about a year ago. When he would come home he never spent any time with me and he started staying at work an extra week. I got pregnant and he said he was stressed. He started going out drinking and to the bars while away at work and would come home and not call me when he said he would. He just said he passed out. He started to get interested in things he wasn't into before and he worried about his appearance and even started to lose weight. I started to become suspicious that he was cheating. The woman I thought he was cheating on me with worked with him and he said they were just friends. But I later learned he was not only texting her but calling her. When he was home I took his phone to take a picture of him and our daughter and I saw two pictures of her saved in this photos (clothed). It seems strange to me, can they just be friends? I don't believe him and my trust is gone. We've been going through the process of seperating but he's begging me to try and make things work and says he will change but he's said it time and time again. Need an opinion.

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We met on a dating app, he's a little shy, but nice, thoughtful and he said he liked me. Last Saturday was our second date, We cuddled during the movie, and he kissed my forehead, he wanted kissed lips, I rejected, he asked me to sit on his leg, I rejected. The rejection didn't mean I hate him, I wanna take it slow, he said he understood and respected it. He told me next time he would take me to karaoke. Before he left, he asked me "did you have a good time" for 4 times.

After that, I texted him, said I was happy to be with him, just a little shy. He replied he wanted me to have a good time, We said good night to each other. The next day, Just in case he lost interest in me for my coldness, I texted again talked about the weather, he's a writer, so I encouraged to finish 4 chapters coz the rainy day is good time for creating and conceiving ideas, he replied" that's a lot;)" and since then, I didn't text him until yesterday, I think test often maybe annoying, although I miss him. If he miss me, he will definitely send sth, so all I do is just wait his text and a third date

I haven't followed him on FB, I wanna leave him a space for personal stuff. But I do search him and see what goes on him, I saw his last update was on Monday. The dating app, showed he was active 6 days before, and the text I sent to him got no replied, which's said I miss u:(

Im really confused, can't stop thinking what may happen to him, I even think he may have an accident, though I don't want that happen to him. All these things just worried me, I have no idea if he is good.

I just want him be ok, whatever he'll do to me, stop dating's cool, even though I like him that much, I have my pride, I ll let him go and persue his happiness.. ALA he is alright. I can take it.

Will you do this to a girl instead of just tell her directly, like we are not perfect for each other? If it's a way to stop date, I won't text him. Thanks!