He tells me when he talks to me he gets horny.

[Anonymous]

he lives overseas (due to being in the service) and he told me that the other day. he said he can't wait to see me.. he is always asking me if I love him and I really really care about him but I've only told one guy I love them and I got hurt and I'm not one who says that word often how do I tell him I care a lot about him but and I'm just scared to tell him I love him I mean I have never felt this happy in my life when I talk to him and I can't wait to see him cause its been years since I saw him. its a long complicated story but we lost touch about 11yrs ago and found each other on Facebook and have been talking everyday..

[sarrah78]

i think its really wise of you not telling him anything yet ...even when he does pressure you 2 say it ...don't ! tilll u're really sure ...

besides people change over night how abt years?! maybe he's not the same any more or living overseas changed him 1way or another...ppl change all the time you know

u don't want 2 get yourself involved wth a stranger( I know you said you know him) but it's been so long...i think you should wait till you 2 see each other again and see how it goes

and if he's still pressuring you 2 hear that word just say "i like you ...and I really care abt u"

but am not that kind of girl who says I love you easily ...love it self means a lot 2 me so I just can't say that word everyday 2 whoever I meet...just be honest

[Asker]

Yea I know what your saying lastnight when we were on the one he asked me way I care about him and I told him I mean its crazy cus like everyone would think that when 11yrs gose by you would think that talkin to some after all that time it would be weird but honesly I never felt more comfortable in my life talkin to him. its really weird I don't know how to explain it. we stay on the phone for like 2 or 3hrs at a time and we call each other every other day one day he'll call me in the morin next I'll cal

[Asker]

Him at nite. and its kinda getting in to a pattern. my best friend is a guy and he said to me I can tell you really like him cus you talk about him a lot and your smiling more then you ever have in yrs. and he was joking around one time when he said k babe I'm bout to go take a shower I'll call you back after and then he was like you could join me if you wanted and I laughed and said baby I'm not that type of girl and he was like yes I know I was kidding he was like that's another thing that I like about u

[Asker]

Your not the type of girl who sleeps around and I admire you for that. we talk about just about everything its so nice but different for me

[sarrah78]

Its really gd 2 feel that way wth some1...i mean 2 hv some 1 that makes you smile and happy all the time I know the feeling believe me and I don't blame you when you find some1 that makes you feel that great it makes you forget about ur past relationships and fears...

but as I said b4 don't say the word till u're 100% sure of him...i mean I don't know you and I can tell you love the guy:)...but just don't rush telling him till u're sure he is what you think he is...its not an act not a mask gor it!!