Hey, I'm a feminine guy and most of my girl friends like me cos I understand their wardrobe struggles and help them if they need guy advice.
The truth is, the nice girls LOVE feminine guys, it's only the bitches that hate us (and I'd love to shove one of my high heeled feet up their butts tbh!)
What I suggest is trying to fit in by dressing more feminine and learning how to apply makeup and nail polish. Youtube tutorials don't judge.
Take it in steps to be accepted as one of them, it may take a while but be genuine, laugh hysterically if they say something funny and gossip. Girls love hearing gossip from feminine guys, especially if it's about other girls you both hate. Also, say 'OMG' or 'Oh my gosh' a lot, but don't exaggerate it to the point of shouting. If you voice hurts, lower it slightly.
Also, tell them straight up what your orientation is so they won't label you as 'gay' (unless you are, but that's okay.)
Feel free to be 'touchy', just don't touch their butts or boobs. If they say 'get off me' though, do it. But most of them won't mind if you touch them the way they touch each other (I don't mean this in a dirty way!)
If you like one of them, spend time with her and then tell her after some time. She'll be more likely to respond nicely, especially if you blush while telling her.
I hope this helps. Go for it!
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There is a group at my school that I belong to with a whole mixture of different people: gays and bisexuals and asexuals and blacks and whites and Muslims and Christians and Athiests. A guy belonging to the group - Euan - is asexual, though most people think he's gay. He takes no notice of them and allows them to think what they will, which is the beauty of all the people in the group: we just don't care.
Whenever the girls and I go shopping or just go out to Starbucks to gossip, he comes along with us as just another person. He is treated like the rest of the girls.
I think he just got into our group by being honest and funny and having that particular don't-care attitude that we love. He treats us like everyone else and in return we treat him like everyone else. There's really nothing to it but show everybody you're one of them.
Wanna chat? :D 8 have or dated a male who then went trans female after we didn't work out. I saw him as a her once, little awkward but I'd think a guy like u would be more like a sensative easy going and easy to talk to. I'm in a wheelchair now. But if ur nice, u can push me and my therapy dog in my pic through the mall and get coffee if like lol :)
I use to have a friend like that! He was my hairstylist too haha. well from what you've said you just gotta keep being yourself and eventually you find the ones that see it that way too and will understand how you want to be seen (*˘︶˘*)
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