Girls, how would you feel about having a guy as a friend who is somewhat feminine?

shessoheavy
I am not Mr. Mascy Masculine man, not at all. There are not really any nice words to refer to men like this. Most of the words that are used are homophobic; the best one i guess is sissy but that also implies that you cross dress. I consider myself like the opposite of a tomboy, a tomgirl if you will. I am not straight, but I am not gay either; I am asexual and aromantic meaning I am not sexually or romantically attracted to anyone. I feel more comfortable around women as I can sort let my guard down and just be myself. The problem that I am having is it seems like most girls still think of me as just a guy. I do not want to be a boyfriend, a guy friend, or "just friends" I want to be a girl friend who just happens to be a guy. Kind of the stereotypical straight girl/ gay guy relationship. I am not talking about the accessorized GBF crap, I am talking about deep emotionally intimate friendships. Although I would be interest in doing traditional girly thing together like shopping (I have a huge interest in fashion). Girls, could you see yourself with a friend like this? How can I portray that I want this kind of relationship when I am still treated like I am just another guy? Thanks :)
Girls, how would you feel about having a guy as a friend who is somewhat feminine?
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