Is grinding slutty?

[Anonymous]

Is it slutty to playfully grind someone whos an acquaintance?

[CaptainFrost]

it definitely is sexual

and could be percieved as slutty to many people

but its all about the context,

being or doing something slutty doesn't neccessarily

make the person a slut any more than doing a good

deed makes them a good person.

at the end of the day it comes down to what individuals and society thinks

just don't become known as the girl who will do dirty things for guys or they won't respect you

make sure its your boyfiend or a really good acquaintance

[Littletad]

Setting makes all the difference...

[bitesizedonut]

I think there are a lot of people who would attribute that kind of behavior to a sexual deviant. It is definitely not something that goes along with your typical social rules and boundaries. If a woman saw you, they would likely be either disgusted or jealous or both. If a man saw you they may be disgusted or think that you are easy. I think that would be the general reaction.

[ALWAYSclassy]

No it's not slutty. If you're dancing and you know that person I don't see what the problem is. I probably wouldn't do it with a stranger though.

[Dela1111]

Being one of the few guys with the balls to call a girl out for being a slut, I'll have to say that this is NOT slutty if you just grind on some guy who is your friend. If you are trying to date him then its something much different.

[Amrit]

What ? If it were your boyfriend then it was understood. But an acquaintance ?

Sorry dear, it is slutty.

[Anonymous]

I see it as trashy. I wouldn't even let my girlfriend grind on me. Keep that stuff for the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

Its just a more intimate way of dancing. That's all.