Tossing said if fabulously... There is a difference between "needing" a companion and "wanting" one... I don't "need" to have a man beside me but I find it very pleasant. Tossing's line about being cocky should be taken to heart. It's a pretty common attitude for guys that have it together and, even though they may feel confident, it comes out arrogant and judgmental...But, putting that aside because, of course, that is not always the issue...Guys that have their stuff together are very attractive...They have direction, know their mind, know what they want and know how to achieve it. What isn't sexy about that? And we don't want to be worshipped any more than you do...Respected, appreciated, valued, secure, basically treasured. I sure don't want a guy kissing my behind. Some do but I find that needy and irritating.
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I don't need my boyfriend to have problems, but I do want him to want me around. It's not that I want to be worshiped, it's more about being appreciated. And I find that people who think they don't have problems are sometimes a little to cocky for my tastes. Mistakes are part of what make us human. They leave us vulnerable, if only for a moment, and this makes us more understanding when others make mistakes.
I was with a guy like that, and to this day I still wonder "why me?" I love myself and I have high self-esteem, but honestly he was so above me! He really DIDN'T need a GF, he was honestly just lonely. I caught wind of it, and left.
Yes it is possible. Girls like guys who have a bit of an edge. Not problems, but being fun, adventurous and playfully cocky is something that girls really really find attractive. If you're too nice, too simple, you can come off as boring.
Girls like a guy who seems like he doesn't need a companion, someone that doesn't need a girlfriend to make them happy because they make themselves happy.
And yes, women are turned off by a guy who worships a woman. Girls want to be a part of your life, not your whole life.
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