Also girl out of curiosity what do you like about grinding?
what should the guy behind you do so you have fun?
Yeah that is a sign she wants to kiss you, however, sometimes a girl will do that just to tease you and then when you go in for the kiss she'll move her head away. But if she looks like she's really into it, and is pretty much begging you to kiss her with her body language then do it. If she rejects you then just play it off cool, it's a party there are other girls around ,move on to the next one.
Guys can't really do much in making grinding more fun, we pretty much do all the work lol. But you could touch her thighs, stomach, move her hair to the other side of her face, and whisper in her ear things you know she would like to hear. If she doesn't seem like she's not into dancing with you as much then don't that, it could be awkward for her and you.
Omg grinding..idk who the f**** started that stuff I wish I could punch them because it has become the norm. Everytime a guy asks me to dance he just expects me to rub up against him I wish we could take it back in the day when people could dance face to face but whatevs you know. Anyway if she holds your neck she probably just wants to bring you closer. I grind occasionally even though I do hate it and when I do I hate it when the guy takes his hands away from my hips and puts them behind his head that just p*sses me off that would be the end of the dance. It's like he can't even have the decency to hold me, he just thinks he's the man. I usually like it when the guy holds my waist and doesn't push up too hard against me just kinda let's it flow you know.
Agreed, there are plenty of ways I've danced with girls that isn't grinding...and the guys should know how to dance other than grinding....interlocking the legs is a good one wher eyou won't have to "back it up" all the time lol
Wait I gotta question dnt make funna me but what exactly is grinding? I'm confuzed
Grinding is when a guy dances behind you and your basically rubbing up against him. There are different ways to do it some girls stand up others go face down haha.
I grind and do that move too, But I don't intend to kiss. If the guy is really hot, a good dance, and I drank pretty much, then I'll kiss. But usually I consider it a dance move. I guess it could be considered a tease also.. You couold always try to kiss the girl, if she'll kiss back, then its part of the move aha, but if she doesnt, wel that's how she does her move.
The guy should always be into grinding with the girl. Never be boring, go to the same pace, hold her waist, he thighs, move your hands all over her body. I don't like when guys try to grab my vagina or boobs, just tease around it.. get it? :)
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I grind-ed once with this girl and I tried to make my face look like I was into it but really I was more nervous than anything and while I was doing it I was thinking what was the point of this? this isn't me.
(she was rubbing against me hard) It sucked when she gave me a woody and then stopped dancing lol.
Be sure to be a gentleman and ask before you "hop" on. It's a form of a sexual dance. So, have fun and try not get her pregnant.
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for me it would probably mean I want to kiss you because its turning me on and then I'd probably turn around and start grinding other areas on you lol. I like grinding because to me it is like foreplay and I can see if the guy has good rhythm and we stay in sync to me it means he's mprobably good in bed, its just a huge turn on. The guy behind me should have his hands on my hips and grinding up on me as much as possible and maybe whisper a couple of things in my ear like omg your so sexy or something like that. :)
Thanks this is helpful
so would I be right in assuming you like to party alot
Yeah I do lol.
No, generally I don't think they want to kiss you. Grinding is not a dance that would include kissing...just not that type of dance.
Personally I like nothing about grinding. It is disgusting. It's like dry-humping doggy style except you're on a dance floor.It's not even dance. It's just rubbing a guy's penis with your ass. Front grinding...I definitely felt like a total slut.
I went to dance with my former best friend and we started off dancing face to face, we had fun, but the music turned to more of the techno and metal type of stuff so grinding was the natural dance to go to. She did the same thing and leaned her head back on my shoulder, I thought she was just tired and resting her head or something, but after a second or two she asked me why I wasn't kissing her. So it could be a kiss type of dance, just has to be the right chemistry between the people.
"former best friend" dude what happen to make her your former friend I don't wanna be following yo advice and I start losing friends and stuff
she was definitely trying to kiss you lol. what I love about grinding is that its like a type of dancing where we're touching, but unless the guy dosnt move with you the right way or he's a terrible dancer its not fun. I love when guys like move with me and they arnt all over the place, or when we hold hands and like move around, or when his hands are like really close to me. I looove grinding lol especially when we get really into it, I do lol
Its a sign to kiss her. She could also be teasing you. Depends on the girl. I personally love ho close I am to the guy. When I'm grinding I don't care what's going on so I love it when he's touching up on me. Having his hands on my hip turns me on.
just dance some guy just stand and let the girl do all the job turn he around push her away pull her closer do different things I personally don't like it I like it but when I do it I hate it when the guys just stand around and let me do all the job and some guy get hard easy and fast
Idk why but idont get hard anymore when girls grind on me I guess I'm used to it utt ocansionly there are some girls that just know how to do the trick lol
Normally, grinding is not the type of dance for kissing. I think it depends on the girl you're dancing with. If you're dancing with a flirty, fun girl, most likely she would make that move. If it's a kinda shy, sensitive girl, she would probably want to just dance and save the kissing for another time.
I would have to say that if the girl is all in your face she is hoping for a kiss or for the guy to make the move but that one part you said about if its a shy girl she wouldn't want to kiss -
I agree that a shy girl most likely would not want that kiss but then again I have never seen a shy girl grind on some dude either.
If you have a female grinding on you, your hands on the back of your neck and her head leaning back inches from your lips, she's a lot of things, but shy ain't one of them.
when I grind with boys I love putting my hands around their necks but I sometimes don't like it if they try to kiss me instead you should just tease the girls you dance with by like breathing on their necks and getting really into it I love it when a boy bends me over dancing, that is fun. just don't be afraid to touche and get into it. :)
Sometimes haha it all really depends. If a girl does that next time, go for it, but if she doesn't respond, then you know.
I like it when the guy grabs my things or just pulls me really close.
I meant thighs, sorry.
I mean 'thighs' -___- Sorry.
I don't really like grinding the last time I did it the guy toook it the wrong way and asked me out blah):it's just dancing no more it's to hve a fun time but if you want to know try it and if she doesn't kiss you ask like you were going to put ur hears on her shoulder something like that so it wouldn't look like you got rejected I hope that helps lol(:
No bro,grinding and kissing isn't good cause your off balance,it would be a really awkward kiss not just for you but everyone that saw it.
If she doesn't come within centimeter of you lips she is just dancing.Wait until she makes a move and at leaset touches you lips and then go for it.
totally awkward but she wants you to kiss her.
and grinding's okaaaay. it gets boring after awhile thoughh
You need a new dance partner then my friend...gotta keep swuitchin it upppp :):)
It can get boring if you dance with guys that just stand their
i like to move with the girl and partly I asked this question so I know what other things I can do to keep girls having fun while grinding on me I don't know I guess I wanna be rembered as a good dance partner even if we are in a dimly lit room and we proably will never see each other again lol
Lol I definitely do :P
grab her hips I suppose?
Nah you need not only grinding involved, you need a mix of everything...a little twirl here, spin there, picked up, lol I go nuts ont eh dance floor I jsut let loose and have a great time
grinding is just nasty... I never do that kind of stuff in a public place.
Well why did you answer the question its obviously a question pointed towards girls that party and likes to grind on guys at party I hate it when people like you make me waste my time to check my answers and its something completely off topic like this and the worst part is you said this anonymously so who cares if you don't like grinidng we don't even know who you are
She has a right to say her opinion and she has a right to not reveal who she is. calm down bro.
Its nasty to you because you're either A) fat B) ugly or C) all of the above
lol hate to be a d***, but its NOT nasty if you're doing it with someone you are dating or seeing or whatever....lol get real come on its 2010
I like grinding any time any place, parties, watching a movie anything. Its fun and it turns me on :)
Yes kiss her it's the best time to go for it be confident you can pull off anything that way
she wants you to kiss her.
grinding is amazing. its teasing and generally we'll want more.
I think she likes you very much how about you ask her to go on a date.
Thats not it this kinda thing happens linke 15 times every time I'm at a club or house party
it makes us feel gud and we don't hv to worry bout nuffin but jus enjoy our selves
Can you explain I'm kinda lost
I prefer more swing or ballroom kind of dancing
Yeah, she wants a kiss
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