What would you do if your daughters boyfriend pushed and hit her?

[Dog19]

Let's say your daughter is dating a 21 year old black man named Arthur, Arthur is 5'6 and is slim but is trying to gain muscle. your daughter is 24 but is a little taller than Arthur. One day they get into a argument. She pushes Arthur and accused him of cheating. Arthur gets extremely angry. She pushes him again and hits him in the face and calls him disgusting. Arthur hits her, kicks her then pushes her to the ground and towers over her.

He hyperventilates with rage. She says she's sorry and relax man. Arthur goes upstairs and locks himself in his room. He refuses to have s*x with your daughter but he's friendly to you and your family. Arthur also bought homemade cookies when you first met him.

what would you do?

[Anonymous]

I'll eat the cookies first , then I would think that is her fault for hitting him first is bullsh*t to think ITS OK FOR A WOMAN TO HIT A MAN, BUT IS WRON FOR A MAN TO HIT A WOMAN... no both are wrong plus she's not a kid to be fist fighting I'm glad he put her in her place so she knows is not okay to abuse anyone

[peachblossomluck]

There's something wrong with both of them if there's that level of rage, witholding sex, intimidation, violence, no matter if someone knows how to bake and suck up to someone's family or not. Those two shouldn't be together! Do they do hard drugs because they both sound crazy?

[juniorsrosie]

I would report the domestic abuse to the police department and talk to my daughter. I can't do anymore than that.

It's her choice. If she decides to stay, I can't help her unless she wants to be helped. It'd really hurt to see her go through thatZ

[juniorsrosie]

Oh. I just noticed "my" daughter started the fight.

Id still report it and have a talk with her. Doesn't sound very healthy to me..

[Dog19]

Did you read the full question

[juniorsrosie]

Yep! I reread it again to make sure.

Nobody deserves to go through abuse. Even at the hands of my own daughter.. even if she suspected he was cheating she shouldn't have resorted to physical violence.

I'd get her counseling as well. It's not my business if they're having sex or not. It's my business that my daughter is emotionally unstable and physically abusive

[juniorsrosie]

Also the cookies thing means nothing. I've had many people kiss my ass then bite it when my back was turned

[Drooogie4]

She hit him too, kinda fair.

Id say they're both wrong and toxic.

[AleDeEurope]

Lol at the homemade cookies, like if that's gonna change the fact he's gonna get his ass beaten xD

I'd have a long conversation with my daughter after I'm done with him, I'm not gonna tolerate my kid to be hitting people, that's not the way I raised her.

[Dog19]

What if you kicked him in the stomach then he wet himself during the beating while trying to defend himself? ( he screamed and kicked you a few times)

[AleDeEurope]

Don't care xD

[Anonymous]

I'm keeping those mother****in cookies...

They're two adults they can figure it out for themselves. I'd push my daughter to go get anger management classes.

[peachblossomluck]

People always pushing people in this story... tsk tsk..

[cth96190]

First point, my daughter would not be dating a black man or anyone who was not white. Period.
Second point, my daughter trains with me at a Shotokan karate dojo.
During the early part of her bad-boy fixation (the standard one that girls go through during their teens) she had the standard oxygen thief boyfriend.
One night, he took a swing at her. She reacted in the way that she had been trained to react. She broke his jaw in five places and she broke the arm that took a swing at her.
Daddy was proud of his little girl that night.
It also saved me the trouble of paying him a visit and giving him a free karate lesson.

[JustinTheGreat]

To be fair, she hit him first
I would tell her that she should end the relationship and that she shouldn't hit people
then i'd eat the cookies. She's not allowed to have any lol

[Dog19]

What would you do if you kicked him in the stomach and he wet himself

[Unicrone]

If I found out he was hitting her I'd beat the living shit out of him. Idc how nice he is to me, it's how he treats my daughter that counts

[Dog19]

What if he vomits during the beating

[Unicrone]

I'd clean it up when I get tired beating him and as far as I'm concerned it's an act of defense. I'm defending my daughter

[Dog19]

What if he cried as well?

[Unicrone]

Then I know he would be less likely to hit a girlfriend in fear of the father

[Anonymous]

I would kick his ass. I don't want anyone attacking my family

[Dog19]

What if he vomited then cried while being beaten would you stop

[Opinion Owner]

No he messed with my family so he would meet my wrath. I will only stop when he apologizes.

[vishna]

I'd keep the cookies. Tell her to break up with him. And tell her to get her shit together and stop hitting people before she gets her nose broken.

[This_is_my_username]

Imma beat his ass black and blue. And call da cops! shit ain't happening in my house with my daughter.

[RockingRitu]

I think neither of them love each other. I would suggest them to break up.

[yotes-of-472]

The same as I would if my son's girlfriend pushed and hit him. I would be upset and report it.

[Cosytoasty]

Hey for cookies, he can beat her ass all he wants.

[peachblossomluck]

Lol.

[Anonymous]

Give her advices after it's her life she do what she want

[deraz24]

He wouldn't be her boyfriend anymore

[DeLoran]

Guess he's the Cookie Monster hehe

[Dred1614returns]

He's getting his ass beat.

[Dog19]

What would you do if he cried during the beating

[Dred1614returns]

Stop because that would mean my message has been received.

[cupidkisses]

i would tell her to break up

[ColinHarvey]

I would cower in fear.

[D4vid25]

He better run fast...

[abcdgg]

jail

[holly6901]

tell them both off