What are the signs that a guy is attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

- in the question

[Anonymous]

texting/commenting you alot

trying to make plans and hang with you

complimenting you

glances at you when you guys are out

he tries to hug you/ longer hug

try to make any excuse to hug you or touch your hand..happens to me alot! they warm up my hand or put it in their pocket :D

gives you a hoodie or umbrella or whatever

wants to help with your homework

wants to listen to your problems

wants to know about your exs

stands by you when your in a group and even when there's hotter girls around

maybe tells you he loves you..at least in a "friendly" way

wants you to chill with him and his friends

midnight snacking

so much haha

[Bricoke]

1. you keep seeing him lookin at you (maybe not eye to eye contact, but he'll look every now and then)

2. if he has your #, he calls you often.

3. he tries to make you make smile alot.

4. u'll c him in your hang out spots wen he never use to be ther.

5. if your havin a convo. he looks in your eyes.

6. if he hugsu, u'll hold you and u'll feel the connection.

[superdudeman]

That's not bad. I want to remind the people reading this that all of those can be read as "needy, creepy behavior".

Sure, if a guy stands outside of your work, waits for you to get off with a bucket of flowers and music playing, he probably likes you. But most girls are going to run. RUN screaming.

[walalalaa333]

- You see him hanging around areas that your in alot, that he usually wouldn't be in

- His shoulders/upper body is facing you (I heard this means, whatever he's facing is the most important thing/person to him)

[superdudeman]

Yes these are similar to when either a man or a woman is interested.

[superdudeman]

Isn't this obvious?

Or are you asking the question that all girls ask on this site? which is:

"what are the signs that a guy likes you for you and not just for sex?"

Is that what you mean?

If that's what you mean, then there are signs but none that you will believe, and even if the guy shows them to you, you are probably just going to get creeped out, pull away, and think he's being disingenuous, and that all of those signs are just fake just to get you to have sex with him.

So I can tell you a huge list of signs that men do, but it really doesn't matter, there is no point.

[Asker]

Would you care to elaborate on the signs?

[superdudeman]

A simple sign is him saying "hey I like you." Guys are actually more open about how we like a girl than girls are.

The problem is that most men reveal that interest too soon. So it comes off creepy, needy, and the girl freaks out.

Keep in mind if he says he likes you he probably does.

Most men actually want a long term relationship. (with a quality girl)

If you are physically attractive then most men are going to seriously consider you girlfriend material. Which means he probably isn't lying.

[LaidBackTraveler]

The main sign?... Our pants get tighter. Pretty clear cut hm? :p

[Anonymous]

Looks at you a lot, tries to talk to you.

Tries to make eye contact and gaze at you from across a room.