Many women like it when the man is physically stronger and I think the guy should be at least in the upper body. My upper body is stronger than most guys and much much stronger then any Girlfriend I ever had. I find my legs are not that strong yet. I mean guys focus on their upper body and girls want great legs. I would work out often with my ex very fit GF. She had stronger legs then I did. I wondered if that bothered her or was a turn off in any way. She would not say openly. Would this prevent you girls from being interested in a particular guy? Would it matter at all? Would you brag about in front of him or behind his back, or would you like it.
So my understanding is that with most women I likely have nothing to be concerned about. That most girls don't mind if the guy is strong lean and very muscular in his upper body and legs kind of ordinary.