Why does she keep checking out my pof profile?

[Anonymous]

I was recently just kind of dating this one girl for about 2 months & recently she told me she wanted to be friends & I was quite upset & hurt by this, so I told her I was moving on. I did break down a few times & text her but w/no responses at all. However, I noticed that she has been checking my Plenty Of Fish profile every day since then. If she is still interested in me, why won't she return my text messages? And would she be checking my POF if she wasn't interested in me? What's going on here?

[Phoenix52]

She has interest in you, still.

Despite the fact that she wanted to be 'just friends', I think you made it pretty clear to her that you wanted more. And since you're willing to move on so fast, she's having second thoughts about it before she loses you.

If I were you, I'd text her and set up a time/place to 'hang out'. You're just hanging out as friends. If she comes, then she's interested in possibly more than a friendship. So play your cards well and scan her to figure out how attracted she is, to you. If she gives you enough IOIs through her body language and such, tell her "Let's go" and take her back to your place. You're the one calling the shots. Seduce her and take her to bed.

[Asker]

Thanks dude! Well, I texted her & asked her 2 talk 2 me on POF & she refused...So, anything I should do now?

[Phoenix52]

Let her go. Don't text or talk to her again. It's up to her to come around and initiate with you. While it stays at radio silence, go meet new girls and get new prospects. Work on your life and upgrade your value. You don't need her.

[Asker]

Yup, you are right - thanks dude!

[Anonymous]

Easy Block her and wait for a reaction.

[Opinion Owner]

If you block her POF profile from viewing yours she'll most likely be forced to make up her mind or contact you to find out why you blocked her.

[Asker]

I blocked her from Facebook & it didn't work...lol

[Opinion Owner]

gee is that because Facebook=/= POF...

[Asker]

what you mean dude?

[Opinion Owner]

Facebook is not POF. Why bring up Facebook when she's veiwing you POF profile?

[Asker]

Well, I brought up FB because when I blocked her from there, she did not respond but just evidently moved on w/her life, so I figure if I block her from POF, I will not have any contact w/her at all & I will end up being the hurting one, which I have been so far anyway...Know what I mean? But I wrote her a note on POF & told her I'm sorry things didn't work out between us & that I wish her the best...I also put up a new profile on there.