Do you think a lot of people hate you?

[Anonymous]

I keep feeling like a lot of people hate me.

[WhiteSteve]

In reality I’m very well liked, I think. On here... I don’t know, haha. I have a few people who seem to like me, others I think don’t really know what to make of me, lmao. I have kind of a fundamental belief about human society that is unpopular and very unconventional, which I wouldn’t even harp on so much, but to participate in a lot of political discussions I need to state that fundamental for anything else I say to make sense. It may still not make sense to some, and that’s fine, I just mean my position being clearly understood, even if not accepted. Some people can just be like “cool, I disagree, but you have an interesting perspective”, but others are probably just triggered by the thought of living a wildly different way of life than we currently do, so they’re probably just like “ok, this is a crazy person”, lmfao. But yeah, in real life, I just don’t usual talk politics so it rarely comes up, it just seems like this place totally switched up from 1,000 “is my dick big enough?” questions per day 4+ years ago, and it devolved into a cesspool political vitriol.

But in life, I’m wicked chill unless I’m fucked with, so nobody should have any good reason to hate me. Maybe not everyone would like me, but there’s at least no rational reason to hate me, I don’t think so anyway.

[razzmatazz090]

TBH I feel the same way. I say just let them hate you, be you no matter what. Personally being a Christian I feel like it's the enemy trying to keep me down.

[Anonymous]

No, I think my family hates me. I know that not everyone likes me (which is normal and happens to everybody) but I wouldn't say they hate me.

[Quackthulu]

Yeah, most people hate me. That isn't my problem.

[Asker]

You don't feel hurt about it? It doesn't bother you at all? You don't think there must be something wrong with you that makes them hate you?

[Quackthulu]

I don't need everyone to like me. I like me, the people that matter like me. Everyone else can go fuck themselves.

[Asker]

That's great that you like yourself

[Quackthulu]

What is it about yourself that you don't like?

[Asker]

I feel like I am not a very good conversationalist.

[Quackthulu]

Do you feel like that defines who you are?

[Asker]

I am afraid that everything I say and do is wrong. I am afraid of rejection.

[Quackthulu]

Yeah... I'm not so good at the emotional or psychological help seeing as I am dead inside. Can in interest you in a sarcastic or rude response?

[Asker]

Sarcasm is ok.

[razzmatazz090]

@Quackthulu you can be rude to me.😁

[Quackthulu]

@razzmatazz090 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B34DmsMxUlA

[razzmatazz090]

@Quackthulu lmao that was awesome. So you're like a mega bitch? I bet you are skinny with blond hair.

[Quackthulu]

@razzmatazz090 Dude… I don’t even know who the fuck you are and you are getting weird, so I’m just gonna go ahead and block you now to save my self the headache later.

[Kaneki05]

Why yes. But also a lot of people agree with me and i have my bestfriend and that's all that matters. No need to think about idiots who hate me unless if they can actually make a coherent good reason because well if i was an idiot and said something super wrong i would be happy if someone pointed out why that dumb. But most of the time it's just idiots making points that they really need to read back to themselves and go ah shit that makes 0 sense.
But honestly i like me i know i have a great personality, i know my values i know my facts and never afraid to say what i think. You can either let it get to you and do nothing, or you can not let it get to you and keep acting like yourself and be liked by other like minded people.

[thruholewizard]

NO ! I think you will find people are mostly uncaring about you! Just the way you do not care enough about anyone to actually hate them. Hate takes a real lot of energy! The person you hate fills your mind and heart every single moment. You think of little else... It is a lot of work it poisons you.
Trust me no one feels that way about you. They would have tried to kill you by now. No no one cares that much about you----because you spend too much time thinking only about yourself! People will start to like you when you start thinking of others first.

[testtickle]

This is a symptom of anxiety. No one hates you, but acknowledge that quite frankly no one gives a fuck either because they are to concentrated on working this out for them self. Which i believe could encourage you to live more freely by simply hating everyone.
Love and prosperity friend xxx

[jshm2]

No. But it makes me happy that idiots are giving me rent free space in their heads. Instead of doing something about the hate they feel.

Hate is basically self harm, because you are too impotent/cowardly to do something about it.

[jkm1864]

I think they just don't care really because most people are to busy chasing happiness to care about other people.

[RHK36]

Don't know and don't care. Chances are their opinions, especially about me, don't carry any weight. The opinions of those closest to me are the only ones that come close to being meaningful.

[StephenCF]

In school and college, I was a figure of hate. In adulthood (as a new person), it’s rare for someone to hate me, but I do continue feeling invisible and uninvited to most outings even when I’m more social to people than ever before 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Regmorus]

Nope. It's almost unimaginable to me that someone would hate me tbh. And never experienced hate directed toward me as well.

[apollo3000]

Well hatred has become acceptable - probably by anti-western organisations spreading it over the internet like it is fine, like that is the way things should be (and it isn't, that is terrorism)

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

On this site, definitely but that must mean I'm doing something right :)

[Anonymous]

yes all the time. I got used to it.

[Asker]

How did you get used to it? Do you like it? Do you wonder if it's you and not them? I keep wondering if there's something wrong with me.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah I'm pretty sure its me. If I'm out with my Sister who is really good looking... people will smile a lot to her and show her attention try and make small talk, not just men but ladies too. I realize its an appearance thing and I just don't care as much anymore. Not sure why.

[Asker]

Do you long to be liked? Do you think it's because you're not outgoing or bubbly or is it purely looks?

[Opinion Owner]

a lot of it is established in the first few seconds of talking to people so its a first impression thing and not a personality thing. People usually warm up if I am interacting with them longer but having really good looks actually changes the way people approach in a BIG way.

[Agape93]

I know a lot of people hate me

[Anonymous]

I really don't give a fuck.

[Asker]

That's nice.

[Texaskid1]

They hate me because I'm beautiful.

[potatoiswhoiam]

Most people are indifferent to me

[Daniel3035]

Yup and I ignore them.

[Anonymous]

I do feel people hate me.

Because I look ugly.

[888theGreat]

Oh yes , I might be most hated person on here

[hknmhmn4]

On here, yes

[Sylvanas_Windrunner]

Probably

[Iron_Man]

No I dont