Why do a huge percentage of people assume that when a black man has a girlfriend or wife of a different race, that the woman is using him?

[steven70001]

The racism is sad. Even other minorities do this. Throughout my life, I hear people make stupid remarks like "She is probably with him for the big dick" or she is"using him probably for money." Even some of my own hispanic relatives said "Why are the Kardashians, always in relationships with black guys, they are probably with them for money." When it comes to other interracial relationships, I don't hear this much crap talking assuming that one race is using another. I feel bad for black men.

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Society is screwed.

[Uannoyme]

You must have a lot of time on your hands and some super powers to know what a huge percentage of people are thinking.

[steven70001]

Life experience

[RolandCuthbert]

Not many are assuming that. The assumption is that the "Black" man has issues seeing his culture, history and the women of his ethnicity as being worthwhile mates.

I mean. . . let me add this. I have heard about this from a few "Black" women who talk about famous "Black" men who dated out.

But when it comes to regular guys, that is not the case.

[Reaperbot666]

mostly due to porn industry and media making it seem like. many girls go after black guys for their dicks and/or money.

[Anonymous]

It shows people’s inherent bigotry. They can’t imagine interracial relationships being based on love, so they come up with alternative motivations for the relationship to justify it to themselves. It says a lot about the person speaking.

[steven70001]

The thing is even many minorites are deep down white washed. Many non black minorities don't talk that much smack or no smack at all when a white person marries the Latino, Asian, etc But when it is a black person so many of even the minorities talk smack.

[Omega_brie]

Cope. A lot of white guys feel threatenened when white women date other races (Black, Latino, Asian, whatever)

So these rationalizations are the coping mechanism that make it feel better.

[JimboGB]

"huge percentage" your framing is simply nonsense.

[steven70001]

It is a huge percentage. People always talking crap about Kardashians being on relationships with mostly black guys and other people making stupid remarks about other non bla k women with black guys.

[JimboGB]

Most people don't even know the Kardashians and the others don't care. Be honest with yourself.

[steven70001]

I am honest with myself. I am not making this up