She only likes me because I like her?

[matthiascrost]

The girl I'm going out with says she only likes me because I like her?

I have all these things that I can say that I absolutely adore about her, but she can't say the same about me.

Is it worthwhile staying together in the hopes that she will eventually come to like me? It's still early days for us, but at the same time I'm afraid of getting deeper into something which may not work out.

[frustratedmusician]

Maybe it's just too early and that you should just get to know her as friends first :c What you're having might be mostly one-sided sad to say, judging by how you described how she liked you in one of your comments below..

[matthiascrost]

We've known each others as friends for about 2 and half years before we got together?

[kimu11]

I agree with her. Though maybe she is still not sure of herself? Other than that, or maybe you have an attention-seeker in your hands. Be careful... :(

[DragonLord]

sorry kimu11but I kind of disagree because when some girls/women put you in the friend zone then you'll stay there until she finish having fun with a jerk, bad boy or a abusive man when she have baggage and drama or have kids then she'll give him a chance because if you watch Maury show and Jerry Springer show then you'll know what I'm talking about if he wants to deal with that crap or be a second choice guy aka her back up plan guy that's up to him

[heythere]

Did she say "only"? Or did you do that?

[matthiascrost]

To be honest... I'm not so sure, but I think that was the indication. She said she wishes she had lots of things she likes about me, but the truth is that she likes me because I like her?

[heythere]

She probably meant that's how it started. You can't tell me you never started thinking about a girl when you found out she liked you.

[matthiascrost]

We cleared it up thankfully.

You were right... she meant that's how it started, and now she's found many things about me to make her stay =)