How often is it that you swing from the positive extreme to negative extreme to neutral zone regarding opinions of the opposite gender?

[Anonymous]

Either from the negative extreme to the neutral zone. Or vice versa.

Or from positive to neutral. Or vice versa.

[_Maya_]

I dont quite get what you are asking. Like positive or negative opinions of people? Like what I think of guys and how often are they really differnet? If that is what you are asking it really depends on the person and not the gender. I judge someone by how they interact with me. I might get 3-4 dudes I serve at the bar in a row that are rude. That is just called bad luck. I could have a bunch of guys that are super nice. It really goes back and forth depending on who I come into contact with. Hope this answers your question.

[Asker]

Yes. It answered the question. Your second question was the one.

I really need to work on my sentence structuring lol.😅

I regretfully tend to generalize a bit. Regarding girls. And when I see amazing girls on the internet or irl, I am like yup, hope is still there.

But when I see the other kind of girls. Or false lawsuits or false accusation news, reports and all; I am like, nope! Better to stay away from girls altogether.

It kind of swings back and forth for me.

[_Maya_]

Ah got it. Well I am glad I was right lol. Yeah it is easy to generlize when you see a lot of the same stuff. It is natural to want to do that. Just remember that you can have a run of bad luck and then hit the jackpot when it comes to a girl.

[Asker]

Sure! I always hope for the better part. The last sentence got me. Like 💯

[_Maya_]

Yep! Been there myself.

[_Maya_]

Thank you for the most helpful opinion!

[ChooChooHaha]

Neutral 99% of the time. It's not about your gender, it's the content of your character. THink Naomi Campbell: It's not cause she's a black female that people have a problem with her, it's cause she's insane and has a terrible attitude.

[ChooChooHaha]

Same with men. It's not that I'd have a problem with the guy trying to beat up somebody over a parking space because he's a man, it's cause he tried to beat someone up.

[strateguy632]

regarding gender? i do not generalize like that if one is a jerk i feel negative about that one, not their gender group, therefore don't change to neutral nor positive.

[virtualwasp]

no idea ask her

[Asker]

Whom do I ask?

[virtualwasp]

you mentions females.

[In_Trance]

Never

[Asker]

Quite sure of yourself! Impressive.