Why do some people excuse their rudeness as just being honest?

[Anonymous]

Their response is that they are only being honest.

[strateguy632]

it depends if they described something that is not rude. like 'you look fat' is a description, even if asker felt offended it is just honest. if they said rude words then honest is not an excuse.

[DryGermanGuy]

[Asker]

Exactly what I’m talking about right here.

[lilBigPotato]

What is rude and what isn't can be very subjective. But some people just have bad education.

[Asker]

https://ibb.co/n8Ztrx2r

[Abbycado]

That's like asking why some criticize other people under the excuse of a cover like anon.

[Asker]

What’s it to ya

[BadApple69]

I don’t do that. I say “I’m only being rude”. Lol not really but when I am being rude… I do so deliberately. Honesty all the time, rudeness when I think necessary.

[RavVid]

My experience is that those who like to call a spade a spade are not very happy when someone else (i. e me) does. I have little tolerance

[Iron_Man]

People when they look at pictures? After just waking up they have to adjust to what they’re seeing and sometimes you go a little overboard and I know who this is

[genericname85]

why are you assuming it's an "excuse"? it just is what it is.

[Asker]

So I can say anything rude to you unless it’s true and you don’t get mad?

[genericname85]

i guess the point is: they don't care whether you're gonna get mad or not. they are just gonna say it. it's like they know it'll be a bit tough for you but they're not gonna spare you. like if you say something rude to me, i don't care. your opinion doesn't matter to my life. like my empotions aren't gonna be hurt by that. and if you're saying something that sounds mean but is actually something about me that is worth considering to work on, then i'll think about it and take it seriously. if it's just a stupid insult, i'll take it as a stupid insult. i won't be mad. it just is what it is.

[Asker]

https://ibb.co/n8Ztrx2r

[Asker]

I believe that is a lie everyone will get mad about something negative said to them at some point.

[genericname85]

since you're talking to AI already ask it to make a list of 10 points for legitimate uses of rudeness. i mean at that point, you might as well not bother talking to me. if you're gonna use AI to make your arguments. if i wanted to talk to ai, i wouldn't use this platform here.

[Asker]

You are so bold to be tough guy because you are behind a screen.

[Asker]

That’s what the block button is for why don’t you use it?

[genericname85]

What do you mean "tough"? I would say the same thing to your face. It's what I think and I don't think that I need to be tough to say it.

I'm not blocking you cause you do still seem reasonable and not trying to offend just for the sake of it.

[In_Trance]

Perceiving honesty as rudeness is a perception issue on your behalf not theirs

[Asker]

How about that real truth about you?

[In_Trance]

Lol calm down, Butch

[Asker]

I see how well you take criticism all you people are are so bunch of cowards you only say what you want because you’re behind a screen.

[In_Trance]

That's hypocritical coming from somebody that posts anonymously

[Asker]

You’re talking out your ass.

[Pohjolan]

So what do you expect them to do instead? Lie? Be silent? Or preface it with I'm sorry but ?

[_Jenny_]

Another Anon

[jahaims]

You are delusional