no joke, I think more people, specially NICE GUYS should read THG and pay attention to Peeta, Gales is the cool guy, almost bad boy, kind of "sexy and I know it" kind of boy, while Peeta is ALMOST the typical nicey nice guy who secretely loves the girl until he finally confesses and she, like ofthen happens to nice guys, consider his kindness to be weakness, and his love to be neediness, which is the main problem that make nice guys be considered wussies, and then, when the girl looses respect and don't consider them MALES, they fall in the friend zone.
again, Peeta is a NICE guy, kind of cheesy, kind of shy, and truly an "I would die for you# kind of boy who all girls say they want but in real life they don't like at all, with one BIG difference, he WAS, IS and REMAINS a nice guy BUT, while shy, he is determinated and brave (to the point of joining the BAD guys knowing they are using him and WILL kill him, just to protect the girl), he is confident, despite the fact that she at some points lose respect of him he always CHARM the audience and not by putting up an act, but by being honest and optimistic, also, like many nice guys he LIVES for the girl, but unlike most of them he also won't take sh?t from her or from anyone else, so she ends up always having, AT THE VERY LEAST, respect for him which again, is the main problems with guys in the friend zone, they allow the girl to treat them like garbage, and their sweetness becomes pathetic-ness, and well, nice guys, another BIG problem is that are often felt manipulative and fake, sounds familiar?:
ohhh you like Twilight? I loved it too <3
sure I will buy drinks for your friends too
as your friend I advice you to not date that bad boy, you deserve someone nice (MEEEEEEEEE! pick ME!)
like they are not themselves, is OK to be nice, but only if it comes from your heart, in honesty, but some will say anything the girl wants to hear because they are DESPERATE for her to notice, to love him.
women will never like the "date me or I will jump off the bridge" kind of guy, Peeta is the "I will die for you" kind of guy, NOT in words, he stuck by his words and prove it, but also, to be like "I will die to protect you even if you don't love me, I will die because you are everything for me, no bargains, I do it because I DECIDE IT and I am man enough to back up my words and choices" is VERY different than "I would say and do whatever but I'm begging for you to repay me with the love I so desperately NEED", in short, is not the same "I will do anything to see you happy" than "I will do anything to recibe your love".
Peeta is a nice guy, but a nice guy that does not finish last, if only one thing you get of THG trilogy is a very good example and explanation of how girls say they want a nice guy but friend zone him and go for the bad boy, is NOTcause girls are crazy or don't make sense, is cause the concept of NICE guy in their minds is different from the one in ours, Peeta is a GREAT example of the IDEAL nice guy10 Reply
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+1 yI NEVER liked Peeta. He was always too weak for me. Yes, it's very sweet how much he loves Katniss, but to the point where his entire existence is Katniss. He doesn't live separate from her. The only time I really liked him very much was in the first book, when he talked about how afraid he was of dying a slave - that was true Peeta coming out. That was him as a human being, living in and of himself.
I always liked Gale. Sure, he was too fiery and didn't think, but he was independent. He loved Katniss and he'd do almost anything for her, but he could live without her if he had to. Other people, like his and her families, mattered to him. He had a purpose in life.02 Reply
Asker+1 yThats what real love is he's better than gale who is more of the a**hole type.
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I don't think real love means living THROUGH the other person or allowing the other person to completely dominate you. And Katniss definitely dominates Peeta at every turn (this can be argued in the third book).
I like him XP. Most likely because he is "hot" and "cute" as we say. His appearances just seem to be attractive, I guess. Also, the book and movie are pretty popular, so a lot of girls have read, heard, or watched the Hunger Games, which kind of brings them to liking some specific boy or whatever. And in that case, Most of us like Peeta. I know this answer is seriously crappy and all, but you know, newbies like me, are, (ahem) new.
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Asker+1 yHAHA NOOB! jk.. that wasn't a bad answer I'm talking more on personality wise why you like peeta not josh hutcherson.
+1 yI've never seen the movie or read the books but I'm familiar with the actor. I think it's the Edward twilight syndrome. Both guys aren't really the hottest guys I've seen, but I'm just going to guess that in the movies they were portrayed as some sort of "perfect guy". You know that typical nice guy character that every chick flick has. He says sweet things, possibly saves the girl's life once or twice, does something romantic, all that stuff.
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i actually find josh hutcherson (peeta) way more attractive than liam hemsworth (gale), although it would help if he wasn't so short. as for answering the question, it's not so much that he is so devoted to the girl he loves, but that he is able to put his dignity and morals before making ever decision. he doesn't let anything such as lust, glory, or potential power affect any decisions which he makes.
Asker+1 yyeah hutcherson has a nice jaw line.
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+1 yI like the Hunger Games but Peeta was really never my type. However, I do like him a lot. I think it's because he's undeniably good. He always wants to do what's right. And though they show this in the book more than the movie, he's very clever. He orchestrated the whole plan to pretend to be in love so they could get sponsors.
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Side note: I'm MUCH more into guys like Tobias from Divergent.
Asker+1 yi don't know who that is,
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I'm reading Divergent right now!
Asker+1 ywhats this tobias guy like?
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He's very self-sufficient and strong willed. He cares about Tris (the main girl in the books), but his whole world doesn't revolve around her. He's not one of those stereotypical main guys who solely exists to follow the main girl around like a freaking puppy. He does his own thing and acts in his own interest as well as hers and as well as the interest of the community. He has good balance.
Asker+1 ywow. ill never understand the unrealistic expectations from women it is never enough to be good looking love the girl treat her right and be a gentlemen it never is.
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Smothering a girl to death and having no life outside of a girlfriend isn't attractive. It is to insecure girls but that's it. It's not unrealistic to want a guy who does his own thing. I would think guys would prefer a girl think that way.
Asker+1 yNope not when you can't see her on a regular basis or at least talk to her everyday when I'm in love I wanna be with that loved one.
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Every day isn't smothering. All day every day, however, is.
His passion and the will to do whatever it takes, and then on the other side his strenght and cleverness. He understands the game, so he plans everything, but he is also always puting Katniss on the first place. And the fact that he is good looking is a bonus. ;)
I love the Hunger Games, and he is one of my favorite characters, you really need to at least watch the movie! :D00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBecause he loves Katniss even if she doesn´t love him back. Gale was just so sure that he would get her, he never did anything to show his feelings towards her he just assumed that she would end up with her. Peeta worked to be with her, he gave her space and showed his feelings towards her letting her make the choice on her own.
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+1 yHis passion and desire for Katniss. He watched her from afar and always liked her :), I guess kind of like Edward from Twilight :p It's just so much more romantic than the other choice (which she clearly friend zoned).
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Asker+1 ylol that sounds creepy ha ha go up to a girl and say ''I have long watched you from afar'' ...lmao she is gonna be thinking wtf..and back away slowly or run for the door.
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Very true, but at the same time you could single her out and make her feel special :) (I think that would be a more practical approach to mimicking Peeta and less creepy).
Asker+1 ysingle her out like how?
+1 yHe's the guy who will give up everything for a the girl he loves. That's it. Not that I agree with it but that's the reason other girls are up in arms for him.
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+1 yHe's not my favorite male fictional character, but he's better than Edward Cullen and Christian Grey.
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Asker+1 yno idea who christian grey is.
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50 shades of grey main main character. He's into bondage sh*t.
Asker+1 yewww...
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Yeah. He's a messed up character. He's also a controlling bastard that just bends the female character into whatever he wants her to do.
Asker+1 yyeah that sounds messed up I hate men and women who think they can just control the other like that.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI don't know as I don't like him as much as the other male actors. He just didn't do it for me emotionally, mentally, or physically, for that matter.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI liked him before I ever saw the movie, so for me it's not about looks at all. It's about personality. He is a good guy, and he always takes care of Katniss. He's loyal. He's dependable. Those are very desirable qualities.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI bet it's his mad cake decorating skills.
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+1 ybecause his face
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Asker+1 ypeeta not josh hutcherson...personality wise.
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ohhhh, well he's just so endearing and has spent his whole life being in love with her but too shy to do anything about it which is really adorable
Asker+1 yYeah I've done that before its not adorable.
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thats where his face comes into play
Asker+1 ylol wtf are you talking about haha? I'm goodlooking
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well you should have waited to tell the girl when you were thrown in a death arena duh
Asker+1 yHUH?
Asker+1 yim talking about liking someone for a long time but I'm shy so I never told.yeah I get the joke now death arena like in the movie.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThey like that he is a massive 5'7" tall
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Asker+1 y:o :0 :O
Opinion Owner+1 yLol
Asker+1 yITS GODZILLA!
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yShe is beautiful.
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Asker+1 ylol..
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