Questions: Society & Politics

To clarify I grew up as a caucasian woman in Europe. I do not want to offend anyone and I despise racism in general.

I am asking this because I noticed that from my childhood on I was taught in kindergarden not to use slurs or to even call people „black". We even had visitors from Africa every year to teach us about their culture.

But the same people that taught me this used jokes about Asians to cheer me up.

I'm more or less a grown up woman now but even after all those years I still notice how racism against black people is (fortunately) frowned upon but racism against Asians gets brushed off as a joke.

I once dated a black guy and everyone was so interested in him and I was told "imagine how cute your children would be“ but when I dated an Asian guy everyone kept saying things like "doesn't he have a small ***"

Why do some people act so arrogant when they do better in life? I personally never take anything for granted and even though I'm a very successful person I don't forget where I came from and sometimes I think that this may only be temporary and tomorrow my life might change. I think we should always treat others with kindness and respect regardless of their jobs.

I heard yesterday that there was a law being proposed to let rapists off the hook if they apology to their victims. I think it was in England.

Have you ever heard of anything as crazy as this?