What do you think of white guys? (non-white girls only)

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Verus · Accepted Answer

I love men period. But to be truthful I like men with dark hair and light eyes-regardless of their race.

With that said, I've dated a White guy but it didn't end well. I am Hispanic and went to school in a area of Boston known for some of it's "racist" White occupants. And let me tell you if there are aren't as many woman dating White men this is probably why : Like I said I went to school in Boston and knew a Hispanic girl (not friends with) who was dating this White guy. Everyone could see that they really liked each other until, he broke up with her. Soon after he asked me out and I said yes.While we were dating the other girl came up to me and told me to be careful because his father didn't like the fact that his son had a thing for Hispanic girls. One day after school we were at his house when all of a sudden his father came through the front door. As soon as this man saw me he started to yell and say all sort of racial slurs, he even threaten to kill me.I was so scared that I left without my things. My then boyfriend followed behind with my things and walked me to the train station. A couple of hours after I got home I decided to call him and see how he was but he never answered. He didn't show up for school for almost 2 weeks but when he finally did his hair was completely shaven off and he had bruising on his face and arms. He never talked to me or anyone that wasn't White after that. I felt bad but I didn't know what to do so I gave his space. I didn't want to get him in anymore trouble. It's been years now and to be honest I don't date White men simply because they don't ask me out , but if one did and he didn't have a crazy father or family I would date him.

shortie · Accepted Answer

I try to fight this, but I actually prefer white guys to black guys, mainly due to the fact that on the occassions when I've been chatted up by a black guy, thy've often just tried to get my number with barely any conversation and just been waaaaayyyyyy too forward. I like quite a few black guys i.e. celebreties who are black and male for their looks but a lot of the real-life black guys I've met ahve come across to me as way to egotistical and self-confident, rude, and just clueless when it comes to treating a girl properly...but that's just my expereince. With white guys on the other hand. on the few occassions I've been chatted up by one- they were funny, polite and sexy and didn't for instance follow me onto a bus and pester me for my number, and weren't ridiculously foward and most impirtantly, were polite and seemed to have some kind of vague respect for women...so although I realllllly wish it wasn't so I actually find the way a lot of whte guys carry the,selves such that they're a lot more attractive to me than black guys. I have an older brother so I know not all black men are like that, and some are really nice...but it just seems like a LOT of black guys just have really obnoxious personalities. (is that just me, ladies?)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am half black and half white and I am attracted to something in all races of men. I think they are all so amazing. But I have always been attracted mostly to white guys cause of who I am, they usually have what I like.

I have always been a very confident, very sexual woman and because opposites attract, I like sweet, gentle men. And I have always found that to be true of white men.

There is something so sexy about a shy white guy. He is like the sweetest thing ever. He is like a baby I want to take care of. I don't mean that offensively like he is weak. I just mean that traditionally, Latino men and black men, are not as emotionally open. The boyfriends I had who were white were all sweetness. I know that there are bad apples in every race but there is something so much sweeter about a white boy. I would just lay there and look at him and give him kisses cause I just thought he was adorable.

mike5150 · Accepted Answer

Wow I honestly didn't expect this many girls would have such postitive answers.

Yeah I do see a re-accuring thing with white men dating white women but that happends with just about any race you will find they date with in there own race alot.

As for dating outside your race, I used to date this sweet jamaican girl when I was younger but I noticed a lot of people frowned upon it. I think a lot of it has to do with where you live as well. I notice people in California are more lade back about the whole dating outside your own race compared to a place like Texas.

ShawnMHeide · Accepted Answer

with my experience with a lot of girls, I've mostly had  other girls from other races come up to me and ask me out, I've yet to have a white girl that is attracted to me. I'm French Canadian/German Irish so that might be the reason why, the whole euro look.

Anonymous · Answer

they're okay. for some reason I get hit on by a lot of white guys on average. it's really noticeable like my friends notice it too. I don't know why this is but it doesn't really bother me.

i just don't like the ones who come up to me like I'm a stereotype or say something stupid when they approach me. and yeah some of them do approach us like we're easy so that makes me less likely to not give another guy a chance even if he didn't act like that.

i have found white guys and black guys can be equally disrespectful to girls. not saying all of either race are, but the amount is not more in one race. generally black men are more openly disrespectful, you will know exactly how he feels about you when approaching but white guys are less upfront and more sneaky about how they feel about you when approaching you. I think a lot of white guys want to hook up with a black girl but not really date one and I'm not with that.

white guys usually are more reserved and shy. I actually prefer black guy's personalities I don't know why but they are fun to be around and make me feel comfortable. I like guys that are more outgoing and funny. also no offense but I think black guys dress better.

some seem like they have a fetish. that creeps me out and is a repellent to be honest. it's one thing to have a type that you go for, but if a guy just looks at you as a fantasy and not a person it's not cool.

i have never dated one but I wouldn't completely rule it out though. if I met one that I really liked and felt comfortable with maybe I would depending on the guy. as a whole I prefer black guys though. white guys seem like they prefer white girls too so it all works out lol

Anonymous · Answer

I'm middle eastern and I find that when I first meet and interact with most white guys then can be really nice and it seems that we get along really well, but then something happens and it's like the friendship ends before it's even started. I don't mean to stereotype and I'm not a racist, but I find that when I've interacted with white guys (especially in my age group or younger) they use a lot of toilet humor and vulgar, demeaning comments about sexuality, women and their private parts. I find this so disgusting and disrespectful. I also feel that the racist ones sometimes fetishize and sexualize women of color and seem to think that women of color are easy and oh so desperate to get with a white guy, when that is so NOT always the case.

I also feel that while they can sometimes be sarcastic and passive aggressive in their comments to women and claim to "just be joking," they can't seem to handle a woman calling them on their behavior and when she's also "just joking" around. This seems to make them very hostile. I'm NOT saying all white guys are like this, I've met some who are very polite, respectful and all around decent people, but I can't deny some of the observations I've seen and experienced.

greaterthan-gabbana · Answer

White guys are usually the non-creepy-er ones, just saying.

I'm usually more attracted to white guys, actually, I've only liked guys who are white or half-white, so I guess I'm the perfect person to answer this. Hahahah

I'm more of a traditional person and since I'm Asian, I guess its more of a trying to fit in kind of thing I guess? I could say that I have a 'fetish?' (if that's even the right word) with white men, just because their very 'happily ever after, fairytale' and I like that, A LOT. I'm usually attracted to men who are tall and usually brunettes.

But not everyone is like this, I would gladly date a black guy if I was interested. I'm not being discriminative at all.

SnowLover · Answer

I'm Asian, but I grew up in an inner-city neighborhood so I've been involved with black and hispanic guys. I don't discriminate! I'm in college now, and I was really into this white guy who wasn't the stereotypical prep or jock, but dressed more laid-back. Unfortunately, things didn't work out: he was horrible at initiating conversation, he didn't contact me, etc etc. Like I said, I don't discriminate, but my experience with white boys has led me to conclude the majority of them have a very set idea of the kind of female they want despite the fact that most of them don't have the guts to talk to women period.

Not that I haven't met exceptions =D

no_Need_For_Name · Answer

okay, just like vvz1234, what I am about to write is not meant to offend anybody.

If a guy is attractive and/or has great personality, then I wouldn't mind the race of the guy. Just as long as he likes me back. I'm half Mexican and Haitian, and as of yet,no caucasian guy has showed me any sign of affection, so instead of showing any sign of affection to them and get rejected, I decide to hide it and keep it on the down low. But believe me, I have seen my fair share of hot white guys; So if you were wondering if people of other race are attracted to them, then in my behalf, I can say yes... but of course there will be other people with other preferences.

Jessie123 · Answer

I am half asian half french and to tell you the truth it doesn't matter what color the guy is. I probably have liked a guy from almost every race. The things I consider isn't looks but personality. If the guys a player or a huge flirt ( flirting up a storm with every girl he comes by) then that's a turn off. If he is a douche to my friends that's also a trun off. Then again I do admit I have a tendancy of going for the light colored eyes. If they are real gentle men, then I have a tendancy of falling for them head over heals.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm asian. Usually nice nerdy white guys hit on me. The ones I am attracted to, seem to be the type that like vvz1234 said, they seem to be into casual relationships.

Some are actually cute and nice but I don't know if they are into Asian girls since most of their friends seem to be only white...? I know some mothers who are against their son dating Asian girls. I heard one mother said she'd rather her son be dating a white trash than an Asian girl.

Some just want to have fun for a short time and forget about you.

Some are ignorant - off in their own world.

Some are super weird... like the ones who are more into the Asian culture than I am... I think those got Asian fetish... which is a total turn off.

It really varies, kind of hard to just give you a generalization of how all white guys are. I'll date one if I know a normal guy (does not have asian fetish) is interested in me for me and not my race. I usually look at white guys as just regular guys not "white" guy.

GemstoneCandy1810 · Answer

I like white guys I, just hate when they come up to us to try and holla at us or ask us out they stereotype us. Like they think all of us are hood or loud and obnoxious. Like they'll come up to us talking about, "Yo, shorty what's up." or "Hey baby" like we don't have respect for ourselves or standard. I've seen guys of other races do this to us too, but right now we're talking about white guys. And they don't even know us. I'm wouldn't mind if they tired to holla, just be respectful.

Brazilgerian · Answer

I tend to love their demeanor and also their way of treating women tends to be quite nice and creative, not that any other race couldn't do the same, but personally I'm more so attracted to white men. Although, sometimes I see a slight hesitation in the serious commitment route and in the bring me home to parents, its not major but I see hesitation in some men.

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

i'm half asian/ half white. my dad was white. momma was asian. what do I think of white guys? they should try to learn more about culture, and some need to be not racist. I am pretty to the point when I answer so that's my experience, even though I'm half white, I still find this is the case. some guys are like, they dont' really learn about other cultures, they remain apathetically inclined to learn anything. some are ok. some are willing. I'm not close to my dad.

lollipopgirl23 · Answer

im hispanic. but it seems that most white guys think that we are easy and that's the only reason thier interested in us. when I go to clubs and bars I usually see the white men talking to the white women. I feel like they think there to good for us minoritys.

poofs517 · Answer

im mexican though I look half hispanic and half white. I LOVE white guys, but Dela1111 is right, you guys just seem to date within your race,I honestly thought I was the only one who noticed that. Why aren't white guys into other ethnicities? (yeah I know I totally spelled that wrong)

at school I'm in loove with this white boy with really beautiful blue eyes and of course...he already has a girlfriend, white to be specific. total shocker

Ceesa · Answer

hmm..I'm Arab, what am I? lol.. I guess when you mean European kinda white I'm not so I'll answer..

umm..I hate dull white anyway, if has a nice skin tone we're ok then.

White men could be mature with a sensitive side, it differs from man to man but I guess that's all.

shani · Answer

White guys are mostly what I date... I've been around mostly white girls growing up and white guys so... But I find that I love well dress ...Polo, button down type style on guys ( and that for any race black. White. Latino. Asian. All races) and I love a sweet guys that can make the time we have together OUR time... And mostly of the white guys in my area is like that... I'm still in high school so, I know there is more out there and I can't wait the try it all

I KNOW THAT LAST PART MAKES ME SEEN LIKE A WHORE :)

Maiden_Maiden · Answer

I'm half indian-half white. I don't want to sound racist but I actually prefer white guys. Most likely because I grew up with my white mom and no dad around so it's just my personal taste. I find them incredibly funny and poetic and sweet. Also, they usually have amazingly pretty eyes lol. And I get hit on a lot by white guys, it's rather odd since I go after white dudes that theyd prefer me, dark hair, dark eyes, tan skin. But I'm definitely not complaining. =)

twilightfan123 · Answer

When they're pasty white, it's a no-no.  But if they do have noticeable pigment in their skin (and preferably nicely tanned) then I'm all for it.  Thing is when it comes to personality, you can't generalize your opinion on the entire male white population, I've ran into cool, friendly white guys, but I've also met d***s.  So if that's what you're wondering you're going to have to answer that question for yourself.

Desert_girl · Answer

The only guys I've ever had a crush on in my life till now were white guys though I'm a middle eastern. I don't really know what race I'm because Arabs are a mixed race and I look like a bit of southern European race (like Italians) or a middle Asian one although I'm Egyptian lol.

I'm actually more into white guys rather than any other race and I mean the good ones.

shequita30 · Answer

I find them attractive. I like all types though. I like the skaters with tattoos and the ones with long hair. I like the "real" white guys not the ones who try to "act black". I like the way they look at me. They keep eye contact. It's as if they 've seen the most beautiful girl in the world. I love it!

Astrielle · Answer

White guys are better than black guys. White guys have more goals in life than black guys. I'm a black girl and I have stopped dating black guys because all they what to do is have sex. White guys actually want to talk to you and have fun and they think about other stuff besides sex.

Anonymous · Answer

To be honest, I really like white men. I prefer them actually.

I'm a full black female and I've date both black and white men and it has nothing to do with personality or stereotypes or anything.

Men of any race can be the sweetest things or the nastiest jerks.

It's just that my mind and body are just more attracted to white men.

Anonymous · Answer

hah I like this question...i ONLY date white guys..i love love love white guys..i can't help it..im a sucker for em..and I think I have a blonde fetist lol..i love white guys with blonde hair..i guess its cause I have black hair and brown eyes so I don't like my guys to have the same exact features as myself..

btw I'm indian guyanese with a bit of portuguese in me :)

Britghtstar123 · Answer

Omg white guys are freaking hot I'm only attracted to white guys they are so mature and sensitive and cute and I just love their personality  and everything about them especially those white guys with blue or green eyes and dark hair hot hot hot. Lol

Anonymous · Answer

i would love to date a white guy because I never have.

but have many friends that do and there sweet respectful and seem so

charming with their girls! although most white guys tend to go their own race

im not trying to be racist its what I noticed. but I would love to have a baby with blue

or green eyes.

cutebrownbabe · Answer

I don't judge a guy based on the color  of his skin. If he's hot, he's hot. And if I'm attracted to him, and he wants to date me then why not?

vvz1234 · Answer

obviously not all white guys are the same so I don't want to seem as if I am generalizing. well I'm latina and I'm personally not into white guys because they seem to not be into girls who aren't white, besides thy seem to be like cold and distant sometimes, like they would just have fun with you for a short time and then forget about it. but that's just my opinion I don't want to offend anyone

xOAznInstyleOx · Answer

I'm not saying this because I'm an Asian girl but I'm not into white guys. I mean they're cute an all but most of the white guys I know are assholes and most of them are jocks ( can't stand jocks, jerks!). And I don't know why but I don't feel comfortable with white guys, it doesn't feel clean. I mean I grew up in a school were there weren't many Asians but I'm still more attracted to Asian guys. That's just my opinion.

GuessWhoSomethingNew · Answer

I think there great! lol I've been attracted to white guys my entire life.  Its just difficult sometimes because you never know which ones are into black girls. did I mention I love white guys? lol

ChicaLuv · Answer

honestly...lol i love white guys...idk y, but there is just something different about them that is really appealing to me

jdchanel · Answer

i think they're very attractive. I always wanted to date a white guy but had never gotten the chance. I never knew any white guys that were attracted to black girls so I left it alone, but I'm in the process of getting to know a white guy right now on an intimate level and so far it's going great so I love 'em :)

Anonymous · Answer

I guess I don't find them attractive simply because they don't really find me attractive for having chocolate skin :(

In my school they go for the pale-skinned blonde girls with the super-hot everything. I am not talking for all white guys, just the ones that I know. I just don't really want to hurt myself anymore so that's why I am trying to like other kinds of guys.

Dela1111 · Answer

Well obviously not a girl but I think most girls don't go for white guys because white guys don't seem into them/ their ethnicity.

dsmith09 · Answer

im black and I love white guys. theyre so cute and adorable. its just something about how sweet they are that makes me love them!

ChikaLatina · Answer

Im half Spanish & half Asian. It totalli depends how the guy acts. But most of the time, my first opinion on white guys are sometimes funny or cute.. But this is my truthful opinion..

maribella · Answer

I like them. They make great friends, and I'm sure a lot would make great boyfriends. I dated a guy that was half white, half black and he was a sweetheart. I'm especially attracted to the blue/green eyed guys with dark hair, straight teeth, and an accent. Ha, but that's attraction. Personality is what makes me stay, and I can't say all white guys have the same one.

jellske · Answer

I love white guys to be honest. especially if they have colored eyes because for me that attractive. I date all types though I don't discriminate because of color. But ya I think whilte guys are hott

rockstare · Answer

It really depends on the person. I'm more interested in the hair than anything, I don't ever date guys with short hair unless they are just fabulously cute.

Anonymous · Answer

im asian... and I use to have a thing for them when I was in high school because there were so little... now that I'm in a school with the majority of it is white... I tend to go back to the black guys

Anonymous · Answer

I probably wouldn't date a white guy due to cultural reasons. Even though I was born in the states and grew up with the same values as a white person, I'm still more attracted to Asian guys than white guys.

chelce12 · Answer

White guys are hot :) I am mixed with black and white. I tend to go for white guys more often than anyone else.. Reason being.. I get along with them easily.. They're hot... I just like them period :)

Anonymous · Answer

I'm latina. White guys are cool. The ones I've met have no rythem and can't dance. They seem to be more shy than latin and black guys about asking me out. Maybe because I'm not their race? Well they are cute especially the ones with brown hair

Maddy_5 · Answer

To me it doesn't matter what race a guy is. As long as he has a great personality :)

Anonymous · Answer

Well I'm Mexican and I have been attracted to white guys my entire life. They are all generally nice and chill and pretty low-maintenance compared to my fellow Mexicans. I find white guys easy to talk to and get along with. And they're, for the most part, naturally attractive! I like that hair flip that they do and the skater styles. I absolutely adore brown hair on a guy! Yes white guys you are very desirable :)

girlsguys88 · Answer

as an asian, the good looking white guys are sorta exotic to me

Night · Answer

They humans and they differ from myself due to their skin colour.  How I do find them more attractive than any other race unintentionally.

shortie · Answer

Do you mind me asking- I know this is an ANON question, but are you black or white?

thegirljimmie · Answer

omg I love then sooo much I can barely contain myself...i've never dated any other race

Lil_Suzie · Answer

white guys have a great sense of humor (well I'm kinda sarcastic haha) and I like their personalities for the most part. I can relate to them better than black guys because I have similar interest to them

Anonymous · Answer

I'm black, but I think white guys are so gorgeous. I really have a thing for them, maybe because I grew up around so many of them.

That's not to say that I don't like other raves as much, because I love all cuties equally.

But in my opinion, the worry is always that they only want white girls.

ayannabarnett · Answer

Hott but there are hardly any white guys that will date out side of there race.

pinkishly · Answer

White guys are so sweet. They go out of their way to make you smile.

Anonymous · Answer

I also find there's a lot of websites where white guys bash white women, but at the same time, they seem to judge women of color a lot more harshly for doing the same things that white women have done. It's racist and sexist. Just because a white male has racial and male privillege, doesn't mean that power should be exploited, miused and abused.

quinner23x · Answer

i love all people equal. I love black girls more tho ha.

Anonymous · Answer

i liek white guys and most of friends are white guys too. Sides' white guys are everywhere if you don't like em' get used to em'.   One annoying thing is they stay inside their race most of the time.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm half black and grew you with my white mom, in a really white school, and most of the guys I'm  might attracted to are white, but that be because most of the guys I know are white...

Anonymous · Answer

as a black girl I'm attracted to white boys who have had black influences - i.e. lots of black friends or lives in a black area

Haisel · Answer

They can be pretty cool and cute too! I usally hang out around them a lot and their the guys I'm most attracted to! Im latina and my friends think I'm crazy for liking american guys!

Princess_me · Answer

As a black woman, I think white guys are cute but I have nothing in common with them. I tried to date one he was nice and polite but we didn't have much to talk about. Even the ones at school. I can only see myself as a friend with a white guy.

candies101 · Answer

i'm an asian gurlll too <3 and, I think white guys are HOT ahahah , and generous too (only some of them)

creolebby11 · Answer

They're awesome, attractive, and much easier for me to get along with. This is just generally speaking, though. There are exceptions to every rule of course.

qlee09 · Answer

im asian and I love their green/blue eyes plus dirty blond hair. I'm so turn on by that.

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