I know this is long, but thanks thanks for reading! :)I know that going away from home obviously would change you emotionally since you have to leave home. It is as though you are pushed out of the nest and have to fly for yourself which is a really scary experience. My parents have always been close to me. In highschool I was never a popular girl, but I had my "friends". Then I went to university and they went their separate ways. I am not a very outgoing person either. All I know is that this past year I have "changed." It feels as though I am missing something. . . maybe a part of my soul. I feel empty, and I have tried deperately to figure out what is this missing gap? But no matter how hard I try, I reach a dead end. One of the reasons I believe for this missing part of myself is that fact that for some reason it feels as though I haven't really grown up. My old highschool friends all have boyfriends, go out, and I am still the same as before. I shy away from social gatherings, and never had a boyfriend. So now I am beginning to think that maybe, there is something wrong with me? I tried online dating sites for some reason, got some mail from quite a few guys, but I just couldn't go it. It felt wrong?
I was really stressed out in my first year. In highschool I had an A+ average, but in university I had to work so much harder. . . (which is understandable). After I got out for the summer after a stressful university year, I couldn't relax. I felt as though I needed a boyfriend (but honestly at the same time I don't.) or just SOMETHING? It feels as though I am stuck between two worlds, and someone is pulling me in two directions. I am going back to university tomorrow and still feel this way. This anxious, mental state that I can't shake myself free of. How do I just relax? Have fun, socialize, meet people? I can't find ME. Can anyone show me the light and point me in the right direction? Any advice plz?
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I suggest you join some club at your college, maybe sports or something. I met tons of nice people there (who shared the same interests = potential boyfriends). I don't believe in finding a partner at a party, because chances are slim that we would have much in common, imo. Good luck!
Thing is I find it really hard to join things like this. I am really not that social. I can't just walk up to someone and start chatting. It is really difficult, and I can't break this habit. :( I always want to escape. Plus, I don't know what club to join. - 2 months ago
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Well at the start of the term there must be the beginners courses starting. You just go there - don't have to talk to anyone if you don't like to. That comes naturally as you get more comfortable around the other people there. What about T'ai chi or Yoga? Not too challenging, it's fun and healthy. - 2 months ago
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