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Initially I ticked all her boxes that she was looking for in a guy. She recognised I’m a nice guy, kind, sensitive and gentle. We had a good connection. I was consistent and attentive towards her, emotionally available. Made tule to see her a couple times a week.

I am also a rare find and from a very good background

Reasons she left:

She thought I was a player and cagey with my phone and untrustworthy. I was cagey as it is personal, but always reassured her and I think I showed her my phone/messages like 3 times.

I didn’t make her feel special - because I did 50/50 when I earn more than her and come from money. I have only been working for a year. I didn’t buy her flowers, I did for Valentine’s Day and bought her a plant in the early stages.

Didn’t like how I was consulting family members at the end about the relationship

I didn’t lead sometimes and did make her switch her brain off. She has a point when we went on a weekend she planned it. But she also tells me she’s not a passive person as she’s a professional.

I feel hurt. It was my first relationship. If I could go back there’s not a lot I would change just cherish her more? I didn’t make any fundamental errors, obviously times where I could’ve been nicer. There was on time I shut her down a bit because she didn’t want to move in with my family.

28, really pretty, 5’4.

She is a doctor, also looking for a doctor that is well to do and 27-32. She even said she is looking for a tiny demographic of guys.

Wants the guy to have a more provider mentality.

Her brother is divorced.

She has been in a few relationships. She likes to be really independent, not good with dealing with relationship stress. Occasionally goes on solo trips abroad. Has needed therapy before.

Because of her age and personality traits do you think she will end up single? I try to tell her to just be realistic and give a guy a chance