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I was on social media watching a funny skit it was talking about age gaps and in it someone made a joke about this generation making certain age gaps weird which I fully agree with. The gap that was mentioned in the skit was 19 and 17 dating wise. The guy making the skit said that that’s not a weird gap at all which I agreed with and so I went to the comments mostly by accident but I saw that there were actually people in the comments trying to argue that it’s weird for a 19yr old to date a 17 yr old or that it depends on on if the girl is 17 turning 18 or if she had just turned 17. I’ll post a pic down below for reference. Now I’ve had my own fair share of problems dealing with dating I’m a bit older but I do often get girls quit a few years younger then me that take interest. Which I’ve given these girls a shot the gap is bigger then 17 and 19 but I still got some flack for it. But seriously since when did 17/19 become a weird thing they are literally within the same age bracket and the people that argue against these age gaps never make any sense with their arguments cause it’s always contradictory one I’ve heard for bigger age gaps for girls who are 18 dating older guys is that oh just cause it’s legal doesn’t mean it’s right and that 18 to 19 is still a child. But then in this context they are fully treating the age of 19 as an adult and saying 17 is a minor which it is but if 19 is still widely considered the age of a child then this gap shouldn’t be an issue. You see what I mean they pick and choose when someone gets to be an adult based on their own agenda and it’s really freakin weird. Makes me wonder what’s gonna happen in future generations ratings already shit just seems like it’s getting worse with these weird age restrictions especially since most girls within that range tend to date up woman in general tend to date guys a great deal older then them from what I seen. My mother and father have a 10 year gap. I don't know maybe I’m crazy.

The strain on my mom's marriage intensifies as the clash in beliefs between her and my stepdad becomes more apparent. Their differences extend beyond mere disagreements, delving into fundamental values, such as attitudes towards minorities and religious perspectives. The household atmosphere is palpably affected, with authenticity in the relationship seeming to erode each day.

These disparities manifest in the upbringing of my younger brother, who, at the age of 12, is already adopting offensive language, mirroring the conflicting ideologies he is exposed to. His use of derogatory terms on platforms like Roblox is alarming, reflecting the influence of the divisive beliefs within our family.

Attempts to address these issues face significant roadblocks. Both my mom and stepdad resist acknowledging the problem, creating a challenging environment for open communication. The stepdad's controlling behavior adds another layer of complexity, as he imposes restrictions on his son's friendships based on prejudiced views, particularly towards black and gay individuals.

Cultural differences exacerbate the situation, with biases emerging within the family, especially on the Armenian-Lebanese side. This has led me to distance myself from my Armenian heritage, feeling ashamed due to the prevalence of racism, selfishness, and conspiracy theories within that part of my family.

As I navigate this complex family dynamic, the struggle to balance conflicting values and maintain a semblance of harmony becomes increasingly challenging. The reluctance to address these issues head-on adds a layer of tension to an already difficult situation.

So, this is a weird question that is in my head since quite a while now. I will be 23 on 29th of this month, and I never had a girlfriend, never had a female friend, and almost never even talked to a girl. I am not an incel, but this is because I grew up in a very conservative family, and so all these restrictions were cast on me.

So, recently I rented a small place and started living on my own. And because of this, I am now free to do whatever. However, I wanted to figure out my career for now. I suspect that I will be good to go in one year. After that, I will finally try to get a girlfriend. However, this is where my question starts.

If I start my love story at the age of 24, is it too late? What I mean is that our desire changes with time, for example, when I was a child, I liked toys, now I like anime, etc. Is this the same for love and sexual desire? When I reach the age of 30, for example, will I still care about love as much as a teenager do? Also about sex, for example, from my experience so far, I know for sure that a 18-23 year old guy love sex, does a 35 year old like sex as much as a 20 year old do? What about a 40 year old man? Does these desires go down with time? If yes, how much and when?

Thanks for reading all this. The reason I asked this is because I am really confused as to whether I should just get married to my a far relative of ours, which my parents and her parents are forcing to. (arrange marriage). Or should I try to find a girlfriend and do what I should have done when I was still a teenager? I would preferably want answers from guys, because I want to know their experience, but if a girl has a thoughtful answer, I would appreciate that too. 💕

It’s annoying when a 15 year old trys to act like they know anything