Guys, Would you turn down a relationship with a woman you find wildly attractive over being too old?

Question

If so, then what rules/age restrictions would you be following? Have you ever done this before?

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I don't care about age. It's a non factor to me. If she finds me attractive and I find her attractive and it's mutual I don't see an issue. However, the most important factor is compatibility. She could be the most physically attractive girl in the world, but if she doesn't have a personality I like and she's not compatible with me, then I'm not interested.

RedInnocent69 · Accepted Answer

Like if I were or she was? It’s like the song, I’d rather do it with Madonna! 😂

Finchie40 · Answer

Not at all , if she treats me with love and respect , that’s all that matters

AviatorTom · Answer

If a man finds a woman "wildly attractive", there's no such things as her being "too old".

Avicenna · Answer

Nah, I might turn her down for another reason, but it wouldn't be due to her age

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

That is an inherently defunct question. If you find someone “too old”, they can’t by definition also be “wildly attractive”.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Wildly attractive... but too old? One usually doesn't come with the other.

I'll play along with this thought experiment though.

I gonna say she's past the age of making a kid... that's a plus, because I like to raw dog. Condoms take away all the feeling. Does she have money from men she's ripped off with alimony or something? Because that would be a plus. If she's paying for everything and gives me a roof over my head... now we're talking. ... and she's wildly attractive right? Ohh yeah, I'll thump her guts good... real good.

I think I might be down. I mean she's wildly hot...

But let's think about this. She could be 18 and wildly hot and I'm not going to stay with her either if she's nothing but a tax. I mean the sex part is quid pro quo and if she don't want it from me as much as I want it from her... I'm not going to be dumb and offer her shit to stick around just for more "wildly attractive" pussy. ... I mean I can pay hot hookers too. Makes no sense to pay for something that might end up being taxing in other ways when I could just get hookers.

How am I doing in this thought experiment?

Bottom line, I'd have to consider waaaaaaaaay more factors than just her being hot and old. And let's keep it real... those 2 usually don't come with each other.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

That kinda depends. I was madly in love with this girl I knew in college. She's gonna be 57 next month. If she finally decided she wanted to be my girlfriend, I'd take her up on it in a heartbeat!! But, seeing as how her baby factory has just shut down for good and I'd love to have kids, if someone came along that COULD and WANTED to have kids with me, I'd be hard-pressed to decide which one I wanted to stick with!! UNLESS, Jennifer was perfectly fine with me having kids with this other girl, as long as the two of US would stick together!!
I've wanted both things most of my life!! If someone could figure out a way for Jenn to be able to make babies again, I'd have no problem, at all stickling with JUST her!!

Berethor · Answer

Old women that look young? plastic surgeries AKA fake looks? anyway it not only about looks but also about fertility, I want my own children and an old woman can't give me that, plus she likely have a lot of baggage, I am not sure if I want to put an exact number, but after 30 women's fertility start to decline, at 40 the woman is basically ancient.

https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/age-and-fertility

Goahead76 · Answer

I just turn down relationships across the board, I don't discriminate. I've had a few female coworkers (both young and old) over the last year or two trying to convince me to be in a relationship with them but I politely turn them down and I can tell it bothers them, they don't get why I'm not interested and keep trying.

SamIam96 · Answer

Huh, what?

Most of us are looking for lifelong relationships. Superficial things like facial beauty and tick marks of age on a calendar really aren't important.

The only thing that matters is the joy you bring to each other.

Pyrofox · Answer

I would if I caught wind of her being abusive with my nieces. You're looks are the last thing I'd be concerned with. I expect my mrs to be a role model aunt if you expect to stick around.

DJB72 · Answer

The older I get, the less this is an issue if I was single again

NathanDavis · Answer

my idea of too old is 80... and yes, that's too old I would not want to break my girlfriends' hip or something...

LiamJHayden · Answer

If we clicked I would not have to find her wildly or even mildly aesthetically attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

If I find her "wildly attractive" she's not too old clearly. I mean not that I'm attracted to 79 yr. Olds but Helen Mirren is 79 and she still looks good. Then again few women 79 are Helen Mirren.😆

PatOC · Answer

Age should not be a factor in a relationship between two individuals. However …. Age should be a huge consideration in deciding on when and with whom to have children. Parenting teenagers can be extremely challenging if mom or dad is 60+. Energy and patience levels wane.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No cuz there is no such thing. Every lock has a key.

AlexEfron · Answer

No. As long as the age difference doesn't bother them, I'm cool

Anonymous · Answer

When I was in my early twenties I had a relationship with a woman who claimed to be 39 but may have been older. Her body was perfect and I didn’t care.
We spent a lot of naked time together.

I miss her.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Yes and somewhat. I only value women for the family they can give me. If a woman’s too old to give me family I don’t want the problems she’ll bring into my life.

Ironco · Answer

I've dated much older and much younger, I rarely pay attention to age

Pohjolan · Answer

I might not but women are rarely the pursuing side so I wouldn't have to turn down anything.

Anonymous · Answer

Which one of us is "too old"? Me or her?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No I wouldn't if I find her attractive then I'd go for it

BetaBucks · Answer

No. There's no obligation to marry, and I can always just switch to a younger woman if I wanted to have kids.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

If she is now at an age where she's unlikely to be able to have multiple children then absolutely...

Anonymous · Answer

It depends. If she is old enough that children aren't a possibility or if they are, there is a low chance of conception and carrying it to term, yes i would turn her down. That is the wall. Its not about looks its about biology.

Ladsin2 · Answer

Yeah. I want to raise a family. A woman my age is pushing it, 3/5 years older would be a no go.

In_Trance · Answer

Everybody has a catch...

Anonymous · Answer

I would not turn down a relationship with a woman you find wildly attractive over being too old. The issue is I don't find older women wildly attractive.

ticktds · Answer

Sadly, I just couldn't bring myself to do it. As I like to say, they are like a fine wine, but I don't drink.

Guys, Would you turn down a relationship with a woman you find wildly attractive over being too old?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Guys Said

Guys, Would you turn down a relationship with a woman you find wildly attractive over being too old?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.