Single Guys, if she was super-attractive but her face still looked her age, would you date an older woman?

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If there was chemistry and you got along really well with her, would you be with a more mature woman; a cougar (or if she has kids, a MILF)? Like 35 to 45, if you're under the age of 40. 45 to 55, if you're 40 to 45 yourself. Or 55+, if you're over the age of 45. Her face is age appropriate, but she's still good looking, but her body "looks younger" and is like an all-natural 9 out of 10. She's very healthy for her age and you two have a lot in common. You just don't know if she's always been single, is divorced, widowed, etc.

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

Been there already, wasn't a bad experience. If we are going off of examples here and I was single, I would definitely be down for Hayek

MystiKaL · Accepted Answer

Age is only a number, attraction is priceless. If you let age get in the way of attraction, you'd be very silly.

Avicenna · Answer

I'd be open to it depending on compatibility and chemistry.

tony_baloney · Answer

Usually no, but lately I've actually kinda wanted to ask out one of my college professors since the first few days of class. She seems about 5-10 years older than me, I'm not exactly sure. It isn't her looks though, she's actually pretty average looks wise, but still pretty. there's something about her energy and personality that attracts me. Not enough to actually make a move, but a part of me is also kinda hoping that no one shows up when we review our test xD "no one showed up? Want to ditch and grab some breakfast?" Lmao

OpenClose · Answer

A pretty easy "yes" from me. I would easily prefer a fit 40-year-old over a morbidly-obese 20-something.

(Honestly I hate to say it on behalf of morbidly-obese friends of mine. But my preference there is pretty strong and I haven't been able to change it much, not for lack of trying. In fact, in the process, I discovered I'm more attracted to men, and might be bi.)

Hell, I was totally down for this at a party once. Main reason nothing came of it was because my dad was a good friend of hers, so sleeping with her friend's son would seem weird.

Also crushed on a friend of my mom's. She was kinda the hippie "healing crystals" type who still had a lot of energy. Didn't even realize her age until my mom was like "she just turned 42 so we wanted to have a party to celebrate that number."

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Never date a single mother.
Looks matter, but it’s only a small part of the equation. Most of the older women i’ve met expressed unbridled entitlement and held absurd standards compared to what they had to offer. Looks aren’t important enough to suffer at the whim of self-blind narcissists like that. I’d rather date an ugly woman with a good personality, reasonable standards, who is also good to me and appreciative of what i offer. After all, i’m not getting married or having kids. So genetics matter not at all.

hahahmm · Answer

I never dated just for fun. I was always looking for more so at the end of the day she still needs to have the character that's worth taking seriously regardless of how good she looks.

I'd be very careful tho.. there's a lot of older women with great looks who are beyond nuts to the point where no dude wants to be with them.

A_Bell · Answer

Wouldn't date a woman but all of them are pretty. Some women keep their young look into their 50s it seems, but some look worn out before 30.

AlphaMale1 · Answer

When you get past the 30s age doesn't make much of any difference as long as you both enjoy the time spent together. I have dated 5 'or 6 women older than me and their age never bothered me one bit.

HighValue · Answer

No. I want healthy kids so regardless of her looks, if she is past 30 I have no interest in starting a new relationship with her.

Summeroflove · Answer

I’m totally fine dating older. Just not over 40 because I want kids someday. I’m not saying they aren’t attractive especially for their age. But. That’s where I’m at

UnknownSwede · Answer

If there's chemistry and mutual attraction, I don't see any issues with dating someone younger or older, within reasonable age difference of course.

coverboyoutlawbrady · Answer

OLDER WOMAN? I'm nearly 70;am I supposed to date someone Madame Wu's age? (Were she still with us;Madame Wu, the famed L. A. restauranteur, died Sept.19, five weeks before her HUNDRED SEVENTH birthday.)

Anjoomkabir · Answer

I shouldn't say Salma Hayek looks her age at all!  56 and she could still pass for early thirties 😍

Berethor · Answer

I am not Macron, I am kinda want children and an old woman can't give me that.

Fuentes · Answer

No I would not, if I'm gonna date she needs to be close to my age.

carlgpfeifer · Answer

I am single 57 years old I love attractive beautifuly girl that is older enjoyable to be with to enjoy nice dinner on evening date

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I support age gaps so I would date one over 35. I once dated a 55-year-young when I was 18.

maximumpower · Answer

If it doesn't mean I have to stay and remain committed, then yes.

Quigly · Answer

Older women view younger guys as inexperienced and don't take them seriously at all.

2ArtC · Answer

The woman in the 3rd pic is quite pretty. Don't think she would have any problems getting a date.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Yeah. I'm 26 and 35 doesn't sound too bad.

msc545 · Answer

Sure, why not?

jamartheg · Answer

Sleep with her not date

JesseJayNeak · Answer

No. I already have a mother, thanks

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