Search Results: confident but not conceited

Help me to learn how to make my friend feel better about herself?

I have this one friend called Tina, who’s jealous of me, as she perceives me to be prettier, smarter, more successful and preferred by her dog, to her. I’m not the kind to show off, be unkind or competitive, but I am...

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Guy's Behavior

Why does my friend get approached more often than me?

This is going to sound very conceited so I apologize in advance. I'm trying to be as objective as possible. My friend has pretty features and dresses nicely, but often time her hair looks frizzy/undone, she wears thick...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Entertainment & Arts

Who's the better legendary cartoon duck?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/LBG4S_kyxbU Donald vs Daffy https://www.youtube.com/embed/a3mAU45eZW4 Donald Duck Job: Naval officer/sailor in the US Navy. Personality: Mischievous, temperamental, hot-headed,...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

Relationships

My first girlfriend at 32? Am I a simp?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance.

I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance. I don't know if the good outweighs the bad. So in this question I’m gonna share with you the pro and cons.

Pros
1. Food: always cook for me on her days off. Even took the time to learn my favourite recipes.

2. Budgeting: She’s very smart with her money. We both have over 50k saved up with no debt. We have it planned to buy a house together and pay a low interest rate.

3. Open-minded: I can talker her about almost anything and she’s a good listener.

4. Very sharing: She let me borrow her car for 3 weeks when mine got totalled. Every time she gets bonus pay she’s willing to spend on me.

Cons

1. Has temper: Every time she has to explain something to me a second time she screams me. We end up fighting and not talking for days.

2. Conceited: She believes she so hot that every man in the world wants her. Her exact words “I have a big ass and D cup breasts. Every guy wants me”. Women should be confident but this is ridiculous.

3. Verbal/Emotional abuse: She tells me that I’ve never had a girlfriend because I’m socially awkward & weird. And how I’ll never find anyone better than her. And that the only reason she agreed to date me is because I’m handsome with muscles. And if I stop working out she’ll replace me.

4. Shallow: She refuses to date guys her age and only wants younger men. Nothing wrong with dating younger, but refusing to date your own age is dumb.

5. Male friends: She only has 4 female friends, the rest are guys. She even admitted a couple of them want her. She has a male bestie Alex who she texts almost every day. Whenever Alex has a girlfriend he barely texts her and she gets mad. She agreed not to hang out with guy after I told I’m uncomfortable, she said I’m “just being jealous”.

Is this how a relationship is supposed to be? please give me the best advice with your comments. My first girlfriend at 32? Am I a simp?

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Dating

Why do less attractive people I know have more success in dating than me?

When I ask this question, I hope I don’t come across as a total asshole My parents, my gamer friend and the last guy I “dated” have all had success with dating apps. My parents are older and heavier than me, my dad...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When I ask this question, I hope I don’t come across as a total asshole My parents, my gamer friend and the last guy I “dated” have all had success with dating apps. My parents are

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Society & Politics

Who you admire more as a person the ones who show off to pretend they have money or the ones who actually have money but do not show off?

I mean there are 2 type of people: A. People who like are show off and want to seek validation and attention by showing off the things that in most part are always expensive, fancy because they pretend they have enough...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Describing My Ideal, Dream Girl

This question gets asked a lot on here, so I thought I'd just make it into a MyTake. PERSONALITY: 1. Kind/positive 2. Accepting/nonjudgmental 3. Open-minded 4. Intelligent 5. Strong sense of humor 6....

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Dating

Calculating Male value on the S€xual Marketplace (Trigger warning) REVERSED from the previous take

Okay, so this is the reverse of the take Calculating Female value on the S€xual Marketplace for Marriage (Trigger warning) posted by @British_Empire_1707 . I don't agree with any of these and there are MANY more...

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G@G Community

Self-Esteem: How I Choose My Influences and Why I'm Never Insulted On GAG (A Guide To Consider)

This post will be different from other things I post about confidence, conceit, and insecurity in that this post is all 100% opinion and just my way of doing things. Keep that in mind. I think a big part of self-esteem is...

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Guy's Behavior

Confident VS Stuck Up: The BIG Difference!

This one's for the guys who all try to say that confident and conceited are the same, that is, yep, because conceit doesn't get the women but confidence will win us over , and they wonder why 🤔 It's not hard to tell...

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Flirting

Am I coming off in a bad way through text?

I was texting a girl and she was talking about how she was talking to a bunch of random people and I said: ”oh I get it, I understand that it’s not easy to find someone as cool as me to talk to“ personally I thought it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Anybody have some fun ways curve somebody that didn’t want to date you when you were overweight?

So I’ve always been the fat girl with the beautiful face. Tragic, lol. I’ve recently lost a lot of weight and not to be conceited, I look great. By great I mean I’ve now become the type of girl to receive multiple offers...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is social media messing with how men view regular/average women?

I posted this picture today, I’m a pretty confident girl, I wouldn’t call myself conceited at all but I’m pretty headstrong. Anyways I feel good about myself but when I look through my feed of amazing bodies and faces, I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Real Masculinity: What Makes A Man A Man, And How It's NOT Toxic

"Toxic masculinity, the idea that there is only one way to “be a man”—strong, tough, unfeeling and aggressive—is a double-edged sword. " - taken from an online article on toxic masculinity While reading a thread on GAG...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Guy's Behavior

Do men become mesmerized by me?

Ok. I work in the music business with 30-40 year old men: some with Grammy nominations , some with their own studios. Only within my four years in the business has a engineer put his hands on me inappropriately. All the...

SuburbanBarbie

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

The Kind of Woman I Like (and Some I Don't)

This compilation is not based on physical appeal, but character features that are not the usual, trite, go-to recommendations. Of course an attractive woman is nice and a woman with a shapely body and breasts, but even...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Guy's Behavior

Why do I attract arrogant guys?

I am a extremely shy, quiet girl. I notice that many men who I attract are conceited, arrogant, alpha, cocky, whatever. Some of them are so confident they can get me that tell “KNOW” that they can get me and will treat me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What makes you want to be friends with someone?

Especially for girls. Would you rather be friends with someone who shows her imperfections or someone who is perfect? I can’t tell based on my experience. I’ve always been pretty confident but it seems to come off as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Does anyone else find “humble” people annoying?

I've always had trouble with being humble and confident. But growing up, I’ve been called and looked at as “conceited” and it’s cause of my confidence. It’s not even like I walk in the room and say I know everything and...

heyitsme20

Explorer Age: 35

Dating

Why am I still single? How can I change that?

I don't understand why I'm still single. I'm a very attractive girl with an outgoing and nice personality. (I don't mean to sound conceited talking about myself, sorry) I would say that I'm fairly confident in myself, but...

Anonymous

(25-29)