This question gets asked a lot on here, so I thought I'd just make it into a MyTake.
PERSONALITY:
1. Kind/positive
2. Accepting/nonjudgmental
3. Open-minded
4. Intelligent
5. Strong sense of humor
6. Strong work ethic
7. Politically moderate (not too liberal or conservative)
8. Strictly heterosexual
9. Monogamous
10. (Optional) Nerdy; into video games or superheroes
PHYSICAL:
11. Tall: 5'10" to 6'5"
12. Curvaceous; big boobs, big booty, thick thighs, etc.
13. Feminine style
14. (Optional) Redhead (or strawberry blonde, or blonde)
15. (Optional) Young: Between 20 and 30.
DEALBREAKERS (for anyone):
1. Feminist/Progressive/far-left
2. Shallow/superficial
3. Mean-spirited
4. Closed-minded/stupid
5. Arrogant/conceited
6. Polyamorous
7. Queer/"bisexual"
8. Already has kids or not single
9. (Physically) Too skinny
10. (Physically) Masculine/butch
My dream woman is someone with a personality that is kind, caring, and positive, though not without trying or effort expended. She is funny, or at least has a strong sense of humor and loves a good joke. She’s extroverted, which is a nice compliment to my introversion. She’s wicked intelligent and has a sharp mind, but not so much so that it makes it hard for her to relate to most people (like me). She’s more so “clever” than “brilliant.” She’s open-minded and willing to try new things. She’s also bold, firm and stands up for what she believes in and doesn’t let people walk all over her, despite her kind demeanor. She also loves animals. She’s very feminine, though not ditzy or daft. She enjoys being a woman and all the perks that come with it, like dressing up and exuding sexuality. She’s fashionable, but in a very down-to-earth way and only uses makeup modestly. She’s very hard-working and likely grew up with struggles and difficulties, which is how she got her kind personality; through enduring hardships and struggles.
Her hobbies would include enjoying music, playing the piano, painting, gardening, and cooking. She’d be incredibly good at cooking. I imagine she would be nerdy in a casual way (with her own fangirling being towards Batman and the DC universe), but I would introduce her to video games and hope that she would eventually get into gaming like me after I start her off with a Pokemon Soul Silver ROM or buy her a Nintendo Switch for her birthday and introduce her to Breath of the Wild.
Physically, she’s very tall (5′10″ to 6′5″), although it’s not a requirement. She’s redheaded, or even blonde or strawberry blonde (but her hair color in real life would be inconsequential). She’s thick/curvy/plus-sized with wide womanly hips, an ample large bust, and a fairly nice rump. She has clear acne-free skin (achieved through effort and moisturizer, not naturally), perfect white teeth, long flowing locks, and the most beautiful radiant smile.
As far as flaws go… I imagine she’s forgetful at times and constantly has to keep notes or scheduled events in her phone to avoid forgetting things and coming off inconsiderate. She probably likes cats more than dogs. (And that’s a flaw to me!) She likes DC over Marvel (though still would enjoy the Marvel Cinematic Universe). She may sometimes come off as naive and trust the wrong people too much or be taken advantage of by people who know how to sweet-talk her. She’s not honest when she’s upset or feeling distraught, because she doesn’t want to burden people with her baggage, though I imagine this would make relationship hurdles a bit harder between us. She could potentially be religious, though that’s a minor flaw for me because I am agnostic-atheist and don’t follow any religions or worship any deities, though I don’t mind other people who are religious. She’s into men who are “confident” and finds that to be the most attractive trait in a guy, which kinda sucks because I myself dislike high self-pride in people, and this is what she (and pretty much, all straight women) find attractive in a man. And lastly, she’s more left-leaning than I’d like her to be, capitulating to every “protected class” of people and easily-offended types and their ridiculous entitlements, though she’s still far from a progressive.
This would be my 100% perfect-for-me, ideal girl. Though I doubt she even exists out there. Or any woman like this.
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