Search Results: guys care about skin tone

For example, a dark skinned girl asks, "do you like dark-skinned girls?"

Or a Chinese girl asks, "do you like Chinese girls?"

When it comes to ethnicity/skin tone, I always say that I really don't care. If I find her physically attractive and she has an amazing personality, I wouldn't be able to say no. This is the complete truth, but I'm wondering if she'd rather hear, "yes, I love dark-skinned girls" or "Chinese girls"

Or if a tall girl asks, "do you like tall girls?"

For this one though I'd answer a bit differently. I'd still be being honest but I think height is an interesting one because the vast majority of guys prefer shorter, and women usually are a good amount shorter, so it really is just the normal thing. However some are clearly in different circumstances.

I'd be very genuine by saying something like "I usually prefer shorter girls but if she looks good and has an amazing personality, how can I say no?" Do you think she'd rather hear "yes I love tall girls"?

For those who are unaware, I just want to point out that these examples illustrate the differences between male and female perspective on dating. Men might have strong preferences but women are more likely to have strict requirements for measurable standards such as height.

Some other examples:

"do you like thick girls?"

"Do you like girls with small boobs?"

So um... physical appearance first I guess. I got medium brown hair. Chin length. Medium brown eyes. Pale skin. I'm Brazilian, but look like a white American. I'm 5'9, weigh 153 pounds. I'm pretty slim, and kind of toned. Though I do have some meat on me too, especially on my legs/thighs. And my thighs kind of jiggle a lot, but they're not "FAT." I shave off all of my body hair, though I'm not hairy to begin with. I got zero facial hair, so no need to even shave. I like to wear short shorts...3-5 inch inseam. About mid-thigh, or covering half my thigh, or slightly less. Rise up half an inch when I sit. I paint my nails all sorts of pretty colors, too. Physically, I clearly look masculine, and can't pass for a girl. I look like a regular guy who just happens to paint his nails, shave his legs, and wear short shorts.

Then personality... I am very sweet, caring, kind, affectionate. I always ask people how their day is, in a very soft voice, and am willing to listen to someone's problems, always. I love affection, hugs, cuddles, and kisses... though I always ask if the person is okay with it first, obviously. I also am sensitive. I cry at beautiful movies or beautiful songs. I also am good with animals and children. "Motherly" even. Though I don't desire to have my own pets or kids, too much work. But I like playing with like my friend's younger brothers and sisters, and their pets.

Then gender identity and sexuality... bisexual for sure. Then uh... femboy, agender, trans girl, and gender-fluid all apply. I don't necessarily WANT to be a woman, but I wouldn't mind if I was.

I do not plan to ever do hormone replacement therapy or sex reassignment surgery though. Too much work, money, risk, and papers. I'd rather keep things how they are. I'm happy this way.